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Hello,
When you become reasonably good with women, you tend to overlook guys with beautiful women as who are presumably labelled as "nice guys" and "guy who got lucky". I have done it, and this happens because of ego, a self protection mechanism to note that "Hey you are good", that kind of stuff. I realize you can't exactly judge a couple's relationship from far away, but i noted down a few points and i hope you guys can drop some points and input on this. It's good to slow down and look upon oneself and see where you go wrong, in your perception.
Here's some of the points to look out for if a guy is great with women or if he is the other one, which that is "nice guy", "guy who got lucky" and sometimes "women deep personality problem (this is a true thing, Chase is amazing in his insight. Quality women don't stay with guys who are total a##holes)".
1) How she treats him
The way she talks to him, Does she scream? or have a forceful/stern voice looming over the boyfriend. Once you hear it, someone's in deep doo doo.
2) Does he touches her awkwardly in public
Most guys will often touch with the act on being "safe". Problem is what they doing isn't "safe", because it's fucking awkward!
3) The guy is like "give up", Follower mode
Well, this one is obvious, He's hoping like he isn't there whether it is shopping or going somewhere, his facial expressions, you all should know but he's afraid he loses his girlfriend if he doesn't follow her around.
Do add things, It be good to share.
Thanks
Zac
When you become reasonably good with women, you tend to overlook guys with beautiful women as who are presumably labelled as "nice guys" and "guy who got lucky". I have done it, and this happens because of ego, a self protection mechanism to note that "Hey you are good", that kind of stuff. I realize you can't exactly judge a couple's relationship from far away, but i noted down a few points and i hope you guys can drop some points and input on this. It's good to slow down and look upon oneself and see where you go wrong, in your perception.
Here's some of the points to look out for if a guy is great with women or if he is the other one, which that is "nice guy", "guy who got lucky" and sometimes "women deep personality problem (this is a true thing, Chase is amazing in his insight. Quality women don't stay with guys who are total a##holes)".
1) How she treats him
The way she talks to him, Does she scream? or have a forceful/stern voice looming over the boyfriend. Once you hear it, someone's in deep doo doo.
2) Does he touches her awkwardly in public
Most guys will often touch with the act on being "safe". Problem is what they doing isn't "safe", because it's fucking awkward!
3) The guy is like "give up", Follower mode
Well, this one is obvious, He's hoping like he isn't there whether it is shopping or going somewhere, his facial expressions, you all should know but he's afraid he loses his girlfriend if he doesn't follow her around.
Do add things, It be good to share.
ThanksZac
