Learning Seduction in High School

[TouchGrass]

Hey everyone! I'm new to this site and have been learning/applying what I could, but there's a dilemma I've come across.

You see, I'm still a high school student, and graduation is still a couple years down the line for me. Much of the information on Girls Chase is about progressing fast, going on the date, getting the girl to bed, ???, profit!, etc. The problem is that I'm very limited in pursuing most of these prospects.

First of all, there's the logistical parts of dating. For one thing, I don't have a car. Second, my parents are home. It wouldn't be too much of a problem to set up a date within walking distance of my house, but the second part is still an issue. Moving a girl and bringing her home is cool and all, except there seems to be one real purpose for taking a girl home. That being to get intimate with her.

There's a whole slew of reasons why I can't do that! My parents are home, it's illegal at my age where I'm from(California), not to mention that I doubt I'm ready for that sort of thing yet!

So my question is, what do I do while I'm still so young? What's the limit of how far would be too far? Waiting is not a desirable option for me since I want to practice and improve as much as possible ASAP, but what is there for me to do? Not to mention that most of the women out are way over my age, which would definitely make furthering interaction beyond a light conversation. It's probably possible to get that number, but setting up a date sounds unlikely to me.

I'm on summer vacation now, and while that definitely does vastly increase my available free time, it also has the downside of removing a massive social environment for me to play around in. My possible venues at night are definitely limited and day game is just plain scary!

Any suggestions on how to gain experience and apply what I learn, even as a young high school student like myself?

 

[Blondie]

Yo Chaosblader.

Im in high school too so I can empathize with what you're saying, I used to think the same thing. I can also tell you that it's all a cruel trick you play on yourself when you first start off. There are no limitations, only challenges. Some things that have helped me.

Get a car ASAP
This literally makes all the difference in the world. Actually you dont even need a car, just way to travel independently. Getting reacquainted bike is your best option here. You can go where ever you want AND you get in shape quick if your in high demand.

Make as many friends as possible OUTSIDE of your school.
Unfortunately for many girls in high school have strict "dont hook up with guys from my school" rules in order to avoid the dreaded slut label. While annoying its not crippling. To beat it you have to make friends with other people from other schools. All you need is a few connections with the right people and you'll be able to go to house parties (the most bountiful of high school hunting grounds) in other areas. Once you're there socialize, be the baller you know you are. FIRST IMPRESSION IS KEY. Bad first impression leads to no being invited back, and thats just not acceptable here at Girls Chase. I suggest the book How to Make Friends and Influence People. That book is a must read. You can download it off any random file sharing site. Building a really solid network of friends took me a whole year but it was worth it. Once your name gets around as a chill guys who knows how to have a good time, your dating pool expands considerably.

Escalation Location
Another one thats not too hard to get around, its just a matter of daring, creativity, and not taking opportunities when you see them. Just about anywhere is ok as long as you're sneaky about it. Having a cars is a quick fix. I also have a bro on call who has extremely chill parents. When ever I a girl and I need 'a place' i just let him know an hour or so before hand, take her over and do what comes natural, drop her off back home, then back to the bros house to celebrate with Madden and high fives. If you both want it bad enough, location is not an issue.

As for things you can work on, I could not stress the fundamentals enough. Work on your posture, your walk, how you speak, law of least effort, preselection, and STRONG EYE CONTACT that shit is like witch craft I swear. Its the difference between the prom king and some guy sitting alone at lunch. Ok maybe not to that extent but it's still a huge deal. Also make sure you know body language 101. It's incredibly useful in all social situations. As for "day game being scary" you are just going to have to nut up and do, no way around it. Perfect places are star bucks, the park, beach is you are close, the mall, it don't matter just go out and talk to them.

These are just somethings that worked for me. If you want to get good NOW then you have to innovate and quit making up excuses, because if you want it bad enough there are none. Now go! Approach Strangers and have fun doing it.

 

[TouchGrass]

Thanks, Blondie!

Sorry I hadn't responded for a while-- I was really eager to start trying to get started and forgot!

You gave tons of really inspiring advice, and I think it's helping me get a lot better. I've been mostly honing down my fundamentals and sporadically taking on approaches. AA has seriously been holding me down every time I've gone out the past month or so, but I'm confident I can get past it if I push myself just a bit more. Still, if there's any advice out there to help grow some balls, it would be very appreciated.

Also, for anyone who's done the journal entries out there, how useful do you find it? Been thinking about starting one, but it'd be awesome if anyone with experience with it has cool advice about the benefits!

For one final question, any of you dudes have much experience in approaching duos? I mostly see women in pairs outside, either with a girlfriend or another guy. Do any of y'all have some tips on how to approach them? Should I just ignore the friend when delivering the opener?

Anyways, that's all for now. Thanks for being such a diverse and great community-- anything I struggle with, it seems someone else already has an answer to!

Ciao~