Couldnt find a topic through searching, maybe i missed it... anywho I'd like to know if you guys got any tips jus for leaving the house, I'm pretty introverted and I work retail so on my days off I usually just like to stay home.
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Raqimus,
I'm kind of an introvert, and sometimes it can be hard to motivate yourself to go out when you've been working all week and you just want to rest. Nevertheless, when I know I need to go out to talk to girls, I don't think ahead, because even thinking about getting ready can make you more resistant to going out, since we all like to choose the path of least resistance. So I focus on one step at a time until I'm out of the house. Hope this helps.
I'm kind of an introvert, and sometimes it can be hard to motivate yourself to go out when you've been working all week and you just want to rest. Nevertheless, when I know I need to go out to talk to girls, I don't think ahead, because even thinking about getting ready can make you more resistant to going out, since we all like to choose the path of least resistance. So I focus on one step at a time until I'm out of the house. Hope this helps.
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Discipline.
Sometimes you need rest and need to listen to your body.
Though a lot of times you just need to say "fuck how I feel" and go out and get the ball rolling.
Baby step talking to people once you are out and about to build social momentum.
It's painful but must be done to achieve what you want to achieve.
Sometimes you need rest and need to listen to your body.
Though a lot of times you just need to say "fuck how I feel" and go out and get the ball rolling.
Baby step talking to people once you are out and about to build social momentum.
It's painful but must be done to achieve what you want to achieve.
