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HEre's what i learn.
1) Frame is everything.
It doesn't matter if you are "right" or "wrong", It doesn't matter how much you care. IT's always about other people, even if that is wrong to society. This concept of humans depending on another to fulfill another is a scary and self-fulfilling prophecy. The Power of Now is a must read, Fulfill yourself.
You wonder why girls like to be treat like shit. Frame is everything.
2) Respect is Non-Existent
Respect is non-existent, or i say ridiculous in today's context. Everyone wants to be treated to their standards. BUT You show the same level of respect to everyone, that includes her parents, elderly.
I know. It's not what you want to hear. You want to accommodate but you can't and it applies in business and life as well. and if you happen to meet the more traditional families, your vibe and eye contact can come across as offensive. So don't be reactive. Just gradually tone down if you happen to notice this.
3) People will drag you to hell (if you're not careful)
I don't know if the title is really what it is but you have heard of people suing Justin Bieber because he help him create a song and yada yada. You gotta to always be careful. If one person says that he's not gonna take your money away, he's one of the first few to actually run away with your money, and probably kill you for it.
and for myself, i have too many experiences to start with. I am sure you are, too.
With girls, she loves you. She really do and she tells you that, But at the end of the day, Life tends to give you what you put in, and it is often generous. You just need to know where you put your eggs, and keep a lookout. If the chicks are hatch and it's not from your eggs, you probably need a heads up. Stop taking it (other people giving you things) or give what they want periodically as gratitude.
Word.
Zac
1) Frame is everything.
It doesn't matter if you are "right" or "wrong", It doesn't matter how much you care. IT's always about other people, even if that is wrong to society. This concept of humans depending on another to fulfill another is a scary and self-fulfilling prophecy. The Power of Now is a must read, Fulfill yourself.
You wonder why girls like to be treat like shit. Frame is everything.
2) Respect is Non-Existent
Respect is non-existent, or i say ridiculous in today's context. Everyone wants to be treated to their standards. BUT You show the same level of respect to everyone, that includes her parents, elderly.
I know. It's not what you want to hear. You want to accommodate but you can't and it applies in business and life as well. and if you happen to meet the more traditional families, your vibe and eye contact can come across as offensive. So don't be reactive. Just gradually tone down if you happen to notice this.
3) People will drag you to hell (if you're not careful)
I don't know if the title is really what it is but you have heard of people suing Justin Bieber because he help him create a song and yada yada. You gotta to always be careful. If one person says that he's not gonna take your money away, he's one of the first few to actually run away with your money, and probably kill you for it.
and for myself, i have too many experiences to start with. I am sure you are, too.
With girls, she loves you. She really do and she tells you that, But at the end of the day, Life tends to give you what you put in, and it is often generous. You just need to know where you put your eggs, and keep a lookout. If the chicks are hatch and it's not from your eggs, you probably need a heads up. Stop taking it (other people giving you things) or give what they want periodically as gratitude.
Word.
Zac
