hey guys,
so i’m in a position with a girl that I’ve met twice but have not physically escalated on yet (even a kiss). Not a position i’m used to being in.
The first time we met for drinks and I invited her back to my place after (with persistence) but she didn’t end up coming home with me. I don’t kiss girls unless they are at my place these days so we just bid our farewells.
I saw her the second time on Fri, almost 2 weeks later. This was a combination of her being busy the next week and me going on other dates so we didn’t get a chance to meet up. The only day she was available was the one where I was hanging out with another girl.
So we met on Fri and had drinks/food. It was a decent time, touched her, touched her leg, put my arm around her and such. When when left I was going to hold her hand but didn’t. We drove separately to the location which I tried to get her to go with me but it was easier for her after work to just drive herself.
Anyways, she had to be up at like 5 AM for work and I didn’t really push it. Just gave her a hug and went on my way.
I invited her over to my place last night as a spontaneous thing but she already had plans. I honestly don’t know if she even likes me or how much. I’ve been thinking of just letting her go but is it worth it to just invite her over sometime this week and if she denies it just let it go?
I don’t think I’ve set the right precedence and now I’m thinking it’s a lost cause. Thinking I might entering the friend zone soon although I have shown sexual intent with inviting her over plus touching her.
so i’m in a position with a girl that I’ve met twice but have not physically escalated on yet (even a kiss). Not a position i’m used to being in.
The first time we met for drinks and I invited her back to my place after (with persistence) but she didn’t end up coming home with me. I don’t kiss girls unless they are at my place these days so we just bid our farewells.
I saw her the second time on Fri, almost 2 weeks later. This was a combination of her being busy the next week and me going on other dates so we didn’t get a chance to meet up. The only day she was available was the one where I was hanging out with another girl.
So we met on Fri and had drinks/food. It was a decent time, touched her, touched her leg, put my arm around her and such. When when left I was going to hold her hand but didn’t. We drove separately to the location which I tried to get her to go with me but it was easier for her after work to just drive herself.
Anyways, she had to be up at like 5 AM for work and I didn’t really push it. Just gave her a hug and went on my way.
I invited her over to my place last night as a spontaneous thing but she already had plans. I honestly don’t know if she even likes me or how much. I’ve been thinking of just letting her go but is it worth it to just invite her over sometime this week and if she denies it just let it go?
I don’t think I’ve set the right precedence and now I’m thinking it’s a lost cause. Thinking I might entering the friend zone soon although I have shown sexual intent with inviting her over plus touching her.
