FR++ "lets get some drinks before you end your adventure of having my dick inside of you :)"

[Swati]

after promoting, I went back into the club

trying out the silent approach with a girl who backed up into me on the dance floor, didn't work. suddenly out of nowhere, this girl grabs and pushes me onto the wall in front of the DJ, has to be one of the most aggressive girls by far. it was 2 girls I bought into the club earlier. she unbutton my shirt, grabbed my dick and suck my nipple, I responded by rubbing her pussy and grabbing her ass. I was a bit weirded out by it, but she was decently hot, with her white outfit and in my head i need to fuck this bitch tonight, I stayed too long feeling like a G not moving

I tried to seed for going back to my place, she said I just wanna be a tease, blah blah...

when she was leaving girl: " how big is your dick"
me: "8 inches"
blah blah blah "no is not i felt it"
then she left
i lost it, I thought after circling around I didn't see girls I could open, i left

then I see her, I reopened with me slapping her ass, walked 2 blocks to look for a bar didn't find anything but

i seeded for going back to my place to get some drinks I'm a block away and got some objections

fat cousin: "you better know how to lick pussy, blah blah blah"

my gurl this whole time was being super aggressively physical with me pushing me,

which I responded with the same physicality, pushing, choking, touching her pussy, etc

she ejected by having to go to the car when I kept trying to get them over




*biggest problem was probably I didn't give enough attention to the fat cousin who was actually pretty encouraging of me fucking my girl
i needed to give a bit more to the cousin by talking to her a bit longer, taking care of her emotion, and proposing a
3 some which she probably would have been down with. should have walked with them to their car and told them to park near my place,

"lets get some drinks before you end your adventure of having my dick inside of you "

 

[Skills]

after promoting, I went back into the club

trying out the silent approach with a girl who backed up into me on the dance floor, didn't work. suddenly out of nowhere, this girl grabs and pushes me onto the wall in front of the DJ, has to be one of the most aggressive girls by far. it was 2 girls I bought into the club earlier. she unbutton my shirt, grabbed my dick and suck my nipple, I responded by rubbing her pussy and grabbing her ass. I was a bit weirded out by it, but she was decently hot, with her white outfit and in my head i need to fuck this bitch tonight, I stayed too long feeling like a G not moving

I tried to seed for going back to my place, she said I just wanna be a tease, blah blah...

when she was leaving girl: " how big is your dick"
me: "8 inches"
blah blah blah "no is not i felt it"
then she left
i lost it, I thought after circling around I didn't see girls I could open, i left

then I see her, I reopened with me slapping her ass, walked 2 blocks to look for a bar didn't find anything but

i seeded for going back to my place to get some drinks I'm a block away and got some objections

fat cousin: "you better know how to lick pussy, blah blah blah"

my gurl this whole time was being super aggressively physical with me pushing me,

which I responded with the same physicality, pushing, choking, touching her pussy, etc

she ejected by having to go to the car when I kept trying to get them over




*biggest problem was probably I didn't give enough attention to the fat cousin who was actually pretty encouraging of me fucking my girl
i needed to give a bit more to the cousin by talking to her a bit longer, taking care of her emotion, and proposing a
3 some which she probably would have been down with. should have walked with them to their car and told them to park near my place,

"lets get some drinks before you end your adventure of having my dick inside of you "

^ this type of interactions barely leads to getting laid, this is why a lot of seducers think escalations don't work, this is an example of wrong type of escalation....

i would have back her off smoothly from the escalation in this case and kind of de- escalate with "no here", spent time with her, showing that you are into her and interested but chill/back off/contained, more sexual tension, and yes i would be friended the group and stayed in the set as long as possible till you and her are in closing location....

 

[Swati]

^ this type of interactions barely leads to getting laid, this is why a lot of seducers think escalations don't work, this is an example of wrong type of escalation....

i would have back her off smoothly from the escalation in this case and kind of de- escalate with "no here", spent time with her, showing that you are into her and interested but chill/back off/contained, more sexual tension, and yes i would be friended the group and stayed in the set as long as possible till you and her are in closing location....

hey man, yeah I was thinking the same. at the moment I felt I needed to push back with the physicality a bit making sure she knows that I will fucking break her if she was isolated with me and should have given a bit and backed off and led to changing venues and building more rapport with them together

 

[Swati]

^ this type of interactions barely leads to getting laid, this is why a lot of seducers think escalations don't work, this is an example of wrong type of escalation....

i would have back her off smoothly from the escalation in this case and kind of de- escalate with "no here", spent time with her, showing that you are into her and interested but chill/back off/contained, more sexual tension, and yes i would be friended the group and stayed in the set as long as possible till you and her are in closing location....

actually, this is an extremely good point for a topic of "de-escalation", kissing too much, too much PDA, and etc

 

[Skills]

actually, this is an extremely good point for a topic of "de-escalation", kissing too much, too much PDA, and etc

bro you grab her pussy in the club, that is a nono.... but yeah that agressiveness at times is also a shit test, and you failed it...

 

[Skills]

hey man, yeah I was thinking the same. at the moment I felt I needed to push back with the physicality a bit making sure she knows that I will fucking break her if she was isolated with me and should have given a bit and backed off and led to changing venues and building more rapport with them together

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Alright guys i spent the last couple of days going off on a seducer, he couldn't text for shit! his texting improved tremendously, tears come out of my eyes when i saw his texting, he has second generations verbals on point (wayyyyyyy better than me like 50 times he is very technical), he goes...

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[Swati]

bro you grab her pussy in the club, that is a nono.... but yeah that agressiveness at times is also a shit test, and you failed it...

lol ive actually gotten laid by doing just this probably shouldn't do it again lol

 

[Swati]

bro you grab her pussy in the club, that is a nono.... but yeah that agressiveness at times is also a shit test, and you failed it...

can you explain, the agressiveness

 

[Fuck This]

Public Makeouts are like batting practice. feels good but you don't get on base or score any runs...


How's the blue balls? you like that feeling huh?

 

[Skills]

can you explain, the agressiveness

She is testing and how you would react, is not planned, is for fun and attention, if you get all excited, like you did she got you no tension

 

[Swati]

She is testing and how you would react, is not planned, is for fun and attention, if you get all excited, like you did she got you no tension

if that's the case she seems to be more of an attention whore than actually into me...

 

[Skills]

lol ive actually gotten laid by doing just this probably shouldn't do it again lol

Yes we all have but is as you witness more luck than skill, I explained the why here:

 

[Skills]

Public Makeouts are like batting practice. feels good but you don't get on base or score any runs...


How's the blue balls? you like that feeling huh?

Wrong is about timing and context

 

[DoWhatWorks]

unbutton my shirt, grabbed my dick and suck my nipple, I responded by rubbing her pussy and grabbing her ass

Skills explained all but to add my 2 cents

At this point if you responded with grabbing her hand away from your dick, wrapping it around your neck then whispering in her ear: “woaah slow down I’m the tease” while slightly choking her you would have driven her insane. Followed by smooth de-escalation of how is your night? While still keeping it intimate/sexual.

Girls like her are down to fuck but their emotions can easily tip over the edge where they feel like “they’ve got you” and they lose interest.

Yes it’s partly them attention whoring but you can flip that to craving desire if you do the opposite of what most guys do which is get carried away in the moment. You teasing her makes her think “Who the fuck is this guy??” And she’ll try to win you over/ get validation

It’s also unsustainable to keep a girl at 100% horniness and not fuck her as the bubble will pop.

You want to bring her back down to 75/80% horniness, work out logistics then ramp it back up to 100% when you’re in a position to sleep with her.

A recent LR of mine will help you as I also had a sexually aggressive girl: https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/20k-followers-tik-tok-star-fucks-in-club-toilet.25383/

It happens though man, all part of the learning curve.

 

[Swati]

Skills explained all but to add my 2 cents

At this point if you responded with grabbing her hand away from your dick, wrapping it around your neck then whispering in her ear: “woaah slow down I’m the tease” while slightly choking her you would have driven her insane. Followed by smooth de-escalation of how is your night? While still keeping it intimate/sexual.

Girls like her are down to fuck but their emotions can easily tip over the edge where they feel like “they’ve got you” and they lose interest.

Yes it’s partly them attention whoring but you can flip that to craving desire if you do the opposite of what most guys do which is get carried away in the moment. You teasing her makes her think “Who the fuck is this guy??” And she’ll try to win you over/ get validation

It’s also unsustainable to keep a girl at 100% horniness and not fuck her as the bubble will pop.

You want to bring her back down to 75/80% horniness, work out logistics then ramp it back up to 100% when you’re in a position to sleep with her.

A recent LR of mine will help you as I also had a sexually aggressive girl: https://www.skilledseducer.com/threads/20k-followers-tik-tok-star-fucks-in-club-toilet.25383/

It happens though man, all part of the learning curve.

yeah it was painful progress losing that fat booty but yeah I'll keep this in de-escalation in mind