"Let's go to my place and play some mario kart" - What do you think of this pull?

[sinksink]

Though sadly, I don't actually have mario kart. In fact, I don't have a game console. I just have a windows 10 computer connected to a TV controlled by a wireless keyboard/touchpad combo

1. What might you look into? I guess I could begrudingly buy a mario-kart like game on steam and begrudgingly buy two wireless controllers

However, this would get her on the bed which seems like a plus

2. Another thought I had was just saying "Cmon, let's go over to my place I'll show you my new TV and computer setup next to my futon" (Though my futon is acting as a bed and has a second bed next to it to expand its area )

Though, I think this second one may be a bit awkward. "Huh, what is so great to see about your new TV / computer / futon setup?" or "what's a futon?"

3. A third issue seems to be that asking an older woman (27+) to play mario kart with you makes you look a bit juvenile, depending on the woman, no?

 

[HumanWhoLearns]

Well off the top of my head you can just say "We can go back to my place and watch a movie" or you can invite her to grab a drink at your place. Additionally, you could tell her you want to show her something you made or something you're proud of. It seems like you could say anything that doesn't make your intentions too obvious or isn't too weird or awkward.

 

[Fuck This]

I think it's bullshit.

If you can't say to her "I'd like to find somewhere more private. My place is just up the street." Then you did not adequately prepare for the pull.

 

[Hue]

I've pulled a 23 y/o to my house with this exact excuse when I was 21 in college.

It can be done.

She was a little nerdy, though.


You just gotta sell it as being really fun, really easy, and retro. That there's no way she won't like it / can't play it.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

I've pulled with it twice this year at 28 and they were 30 and 19 respectively. Both nerdy girls but still. It's just a plausible deniability/excuse to get them there. I want to play you a song/show you a movie/show you my car (I use this one a bit when am out actually!)

 

[Fuck This]

These are the same pulls where ASD and LMR pop up.

If you are confident enough and show intent from the beginning it is so freaking hot when she tears off your clothes and begs you to fuck her....

Plausible deniability is for her to tell her friends. If she is hot enough after you she won't care.

 

[Fluxcapacitor]

@Fuck This I agree its super hot when they beg you to fuck them, but am not sure how you would set this up being direct unless you just tease your intent? maybe am over thinking what your saying. In my head the scenario is you basically say lets go fuck which kills the mystery, confident as hell but they then know exactly what they have signed up for?

Usually when they've begged we went back with the intent but without being that direct?

 

[sinksink]

I think it's bullshit.

If you can't say to her "I'd like to find somewhere more private. My place is just up the street." Then you did not adequately prepare for the pull.

1. Out of curiosity, what are the most common objections you hear
when you say this? And how do you respond?

2. What would you say if she asked you "what are we going to at your place?"

Alright so ideally, she already wants to have sex with you and you know it. I gather that much. But hey, I'm curious what you would do anyway if you accidentally found yourself in these situations.

 

[Fuck This]

1) "I don't want you to think I'm that kinda girl" to which I reply "well, I'm that kinda man" . TBH I only had one failed escalation in the last 5 years and I was strictly going for the layup slam dunk or nothing. She objected saying "I don't go out to the bar looking for sex" But she texted me the first thing in the morning wanting to get together. Repeatedly... But i was cautious she might be a clinger, and I knew her ex so i demurred and ghosted..

2) "I can tell you we aren't gonna braid each other's hair and talk about boys"

But the interesting thing is more often than not we went to HER quarters. Hotel rooms, Our mutual friend's couch, Vehicle in a parking lot in her town.