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Hey guys,
Looking for your advice on this one. I've gotten myself in a bit of a pickle.
I have a social circle I see quite often. A couple of the girls seem to have taken an interest in me. They are quite flirty. One girl in particular has taken to getting quite close to me. She texts a lot and always positions herself next to me. A few times she's even tried to take the conversation sexual.
The problem lies in that I'm not that interested in anything with these few girls. To make it a little more awkward I've actually slept with another girl in the group quite recently. Nobody else knows this but it could come out if someone says the wrong thing to someone else. I doubt that will happen since none of the circle know we've actually slept together but you know how these things go.
The real problem though is trying to diffuse the girls who are flirting with me without hurting anyone. As we speak, one of them has already asked me what I'm going Friday and I need to blow it off somehow.
I know the right thing would be to state things clearly that I'm not interested but it could lead to some bad feeling or having to stay out of the group for a while. I'm not really sure if there's any way of doing this and still maintaining being part of the group.
Sticky one... any takers?
Looking for your advice on this one. I've gotten myself in a bit of a pickle.
I have a social circle I see quite often. A couple of the girls seem to have taken an interest in me. They are quite flirty. One girl in particular has taken to getting quite close to me. She texts a lot and always positions herself next to me. A few times she's even tried to take the conversation sexual.
The problem lies in that I'm not that interested in anything with these few girls. To make it a little more awkward I've actually slept with another girl in the group quite recently. Nobody else knows this but it could come out if someone says the wrong thing to someone else. I doubt that will happen since none of the circle know we've actually slept together but you know how these things go.
The real problem though is trying to diffuse the girls who are flirting with me without hurting anyone. As we speak, one of them has already asked me what I'm going Friday and I need to blow it off somehow.
I know the right thing would be to state things clearly that I'm not interested but it could lead to some bad feeling or having to stay out of the group for a while. I'm not really sure if there's any way of doing this and still maintaining being part of the group.
Sticky one... any takers?
