Leveraging Your Personal Archetype?

[TheEcho]

Hey All!

What ways have you guys been able to leverage your "archetype" to optimize your social life?

Seems like a good time to set a big social target to aim at over the next couple years. In Europe, I found I'm mostly focused on caring for those around me and making sure they're enjoying themselves. I spent plenty of time totally solo, but my favorite memories are from sharing previous discoveries with new friends and being their "tour guide". This culminated on the last day of my trip with me taking ~20 people to hear fado in Lisbon. Once everything worked out (there were some bumps), one of the girls asked if I was enjoying myself, "because you seem so focused on everyone else." I honestly did and powered through the 6 sangrias and 2 tequila shots my hostel roommates bought me to also make sure everyone got home. (yes, they were trying to get me fucked up to celebrate my last day, and as thanks lol)

In America, I've never been in a spot to do things like this and have mostly avoided night life. There is undoubtably a ton of value I'm denying myself (and others) by not embodying this side of myself more often. It's now clear I fit in a leader/caretaker archetype, so I have a new journey of finding ways to fill this role and leverage it for everyone's gain (including hot girls, in my bed, as it's clear to me it carries over to the bedroom). What ways have you guys found your own archetype and how did you leverage it socially?

Thanks all!

 

[Glow]

i think social circle game and the act of choosing to be a social connector/host type would be a strong move for you.

This:
- Activates your skill as a caretaker and social connector
- Amplifies the same
- Provides for models to build social circles or ecosystems to the level you want (more, one central etc)

From my experience its a strong route to a pipeline of high quality lays. This is confirmed by 3-4 people in my network doing the same.

I find the caretaker part is a strong path for sexual stimuli in the acknowledging, warm, affectionate and appreciative side of seduction - ads a super smoothness to eg escalation and opens certain sexual gateways.

Heres a link to love systems coverage of the area which is a starting point for sc game

 

[TheEcho]

I guess I always avoided social circle because I tend to run free and live in the moment, which is why it took so long for a situation to highlight these traits. Can't think of a better fit for this archetype, though. This is definitely a big target to focus on!