Hey chaps,
I've been away from the boards for a little while and must admit I haven't been doing a lot in terms of seduction at the moment. I've got a double jaw operation in just over a month so I've put myself on a bodybuilder-style diet and training my arse off to get bigger before a month of liquid diet after the op.
If anyone has read my journal, you'll know a while back I got to know a Lithuanian girl, who turned out to be my dance teacher (she's my age - 21). If you want to go over how we met etc it's all there.
So last night was a house party for Halloween and I was looking to get at least SOMETHING out of it. I dressed up in Lederhosen and put blood etc on my face and used that as my costume. I'm also getting on really well with a Sicilian girl at the moment but she has a boyfriend and to be honest I'm leaving that, no matter how much I'd really love to be with her. She did text me in the afternoon going
That shows interest to be honest. And if she didn't have a boyfriend, I would have used Radeng's (I think it's his?) text of "Picked a cute outfit out for me later then?", but the fact she asked me first I smiled about. So I tried to push some flirting and I replied to her opener with
Lithuanian girl (let's call her LG) had asked around lunch time if I was going to this house party. I couldn't work out who she knew and it turned out it was her coursemates. We then agree to meet and go together. But a few hours later she messages about alcohol and we then end up messaging about getting ready and the stuff we've done all the way up to meeting each other.
We meet up and walk to the party. Along the way we get onto the topic of her dance partner/the other teacher, and to be honest I had held off LG because I thought the two of them were together. They're not. Score.
We get to the party and things are slow, but warming up. I meet some girls, flirt quite hard with Sicilian girl, we're all over each other, constant kino and smiling and eye-contact. But I just knew I wouldn't have been able to get away with a kiss. I know that pulling her is going to be near impossible. If she breaks up with her bf though, I'll act immediately.
I also met a polish girl. She was quite cold at first as she was talking to me, her polish friend (who I knew) and the Sicilian girl. She was quite direct and blunt (very polish haha) but later I get her on her own and we chat a bit. Nothing special, why you're here, what you doing, do you like it etc, but I got some touch in there and to be honest things were looking good. A mate wanted to get the dance floor going and I agree and drag her through. We then end up dancing with each other and she responds really well to the touching. I thought this would be my pull for the night. But it was only 11pm, VERY early days, but kept it in mind.
I zoom around and meet some more, start becoming the fun guy of the party and my social proof goes up as more people arrive, mainly girls, which involves hugging etc in front of everyone.
A bit later LG comes down and we start dancing together, fun at first, I challenge her to a 'hip contest' where we both move our hips around and see whose is best. Then a song comes on and we realise we can do our swing dancing to it and we then take over the dance floor dancing with each whilst everyone stands around and watched, was quite surreal. After that it was just flirty dancing and grinding etc. We then head up and find a room full of Malaysians playing drinking games. By this time we were holding hands and cuddling up. The fire alarm then went off and we all had to go outside, by which time it was clear that she liked me and we were off. Lots of people started to notice, too (usual banter from friends). We start working our way back in as it turned off and we go back to the drinking game. I sit on a chair opposite her, whose on the bed.
I'm out of it for a second before someone taps me on the shoulder and goes "Never have I ever...have you ever done anal?" I look at him and go "No," I then turn to her and ask her, who says "No", and giggles. The guy taps me again and said "Have you ever kissed a boy?" To which I say no and then jokingly ask her, who was like "well, obviously." We get our heads in together real close and eye contact strong when I go "Who was the best guy you kissed?" "A Lithuanian guy", and then we kiss. Nothing special, 3 or 4 short ones with a bit of tongue. We both pull back and goes "Still a Lithuanian guy."
Cheeky bitch.
In hindsight at this time I should have asked about the best guy she's slept with and if she said a Lithuanian guy, I could have joked about all Lithuanians being good lovers or something, but I missed that opportunity. We then move around a bit, she sits on my lap or if we were standing sometimes she would move closer and take my arm and put it around her waist.
It gets confusing on who's leaving when but we decide to call it a night and head off. We had already said earlier we would walk back together as we live near each other, but this wasn't even mentioned when we were leaving. I was just like "Let's go" and that was it. Walking home we were holding hands the entire way and kissing now and then, nothing MAJOR but enough to still be showing interest. There were times I thought I wouldn't let my hand dangle and she still took my arm or took my hand. We then got to the split off road, where we could have split, but I said I was walking her home, as her feet were hurting and she was slightly drunk. We get to her place and she turns around as if to say goodnight. The first thing I thought of to get inside was asking to use her toilet. (I genuinely needed it, too). She complies.
The entire night she had been saying how she would have to get up at like 8am to go and write an extremely important essay, and I got a vibe that I wasn't going to be able sleep with her that night. She doesn't seem like a first-sex date girl and even if I tried, I would have got a LOT of resistance.
Which I got.
After coming out the toilet she was waiting there on her phone and she says how she's got to go and sleep in order to get up. We start kissing and in-between kisses we talk about her essay topic and how it's about feminism and society. I say that really boring but she says it'll be fine as she's a Feminist.
And this is happening and she is pushing me backwards towards the front door of the house. She starts saying how women are rational and men just think with their body parts, still in-between kisses. She then pushes me up against the door and whilst kissing says "Go" and opens the door. I have no choice but to leave. Possibly the biggest resistance I've ever encountered.
And that's it.
To be honest I'm not seeing this as a Fuck up, hence why it's a FR+. For me, it's progress. I had always got this vibe off her that she didn't like me in that way and she was with the male dance teacher. So to go from that to then being all over me and happily kissing me is progress I'm happy with, especially as it was in front of so many friends all night.
The problem now, chaps, is that I have no idea how to proceed
I'll see her tomorrow night for some social dancing and I can't imagine her being as touchy/kissing as last night, especially as all the dance people will be there.
Just us you know, I'm not looking for a relationship here. A lay would be ideal. I have my operation in a month, which will have a 3 month recovery period and then I move to Germany in March so my next 5 months have already been determined for me. Therefore a relationship would not really be practical at all.
The only thing I can think of me doing wrong was not being dominant enough and her kicking me out was a shit test. Seeing how male dominant I was. Not enough apparently. But I always got a vibe off her that I wouldn't be able to sleep with her straight away anyway.
But being kicked out whilst being kissed?
That's new.
Cheers,
- JP
I've been away from the boards for a little while and must admit I haven't been doing a lot in terms of seduction at the moment. I've got a double jaw operation in just over a month so I've put myself on a bodybuilder-style diet and training my arse off to get bigger before a month of liquid diet after the op.
If anyone has read my journal, you'll know a while back I got to know a Lithuanian girl, who turned out to be my dance teacher (she's my age - 21). If you want to go over how we met etc it's all there.
So last night was a house party for Halloween and I was looking to get at least SOMETHING out of it. I dressed up in Lederhosen and put blood etc on my face and used that as my costume. I'm also getting on really well with a Sicilian girl at the moment but she has a boyfriend and to be honest I'm leaving that, no matter how much I'd really love to be with her. She did text me in the afternoon going
Any chance of a preview of your costume?
That shows interest to be honest. And if she didn't have a boyfriend, I would have used Radeng's (I think it's his?) text of "Picked a cute outfit out for me later then?", but the fact she asked me first I smiled about. So I tried to push some flirting and I replied to her opener with
She responded well and we flirted a bit over text before saying see you later.Absolutely not Miss *Surname*, and what are you wearing? Something cute yet slightly evil, I'm guessing
Lithuanian girl (let's call her LG) had asked around lunch time if I was going to this house party. I couldn't work out who she knew and it turned out it was her coursemates. We then agree to meet and go together. But a few hours later she messages about alcohol and we then end up messaging about getting ready and the stuff we've done all the way up to meeting each other.
We meet up and walk to the party. Along the way we get onto the topic of her dance partner/the other teacher, and to be honest I had held off LG because I thought the two of them were together. They're not. Score.
We get to the party and things are slow, but warming up. I meet some girls, flirt quite hard with Sicilian girl, we're all over each other, constant kino and smiling and eye-contact. But I just knew I wouldn't have been able to get away with a kiss. I know that pulling her is going to be near impossible. If she breaks up with her bf though, I'll act immediately.
I also met a polish girl. She was quite cold at first as she was talking to me, her polish friend (who I knew) and the Sicilian girl. She was quite direct and blunt (very polish haha) but later I get her on her own and we chat a bit. Nothing special, why you're here, what you doing, do you like it etc, but I got some touch in there and to be honest things were looking good. A mate wanted to get the dance floor going and I agree and drag her through. We then end up dancing with each other and she responds really well to the touching. I thought this would be my pull for the night. But it was only 11pm, VERY early days, but kept it in mind.
I zoom around and meet some more, start becoming the fun guy of the party and my social proof goes up as more people arrive, mainly girls, which involves hugging etc in front of everyone.
A bit later LG comes down and we start dancing together, fun at first, I challenge her to a 'hip contest' where we both move our hips around and see whose is best. Then a song comes on and we realise we can do our swing dancing to it and we then take over the dance floor dancing with each whilst everyone stands around and watched, was quite surreal. After that it was just flirty dancing and grinding etc. We then head up and find a room full of Malaysians playing drinking games. By this time we were holding hands and cuddling up. The fire alarm then went off and we all had to go outside, by which time it was clear that she liked me and we were off. Lots of people started to notice, too (usual banter from friends). We start working our way back in as it turned off and we go back to the drinking game. I sit on a chair opposite her, whose on the bed.
I'm out of it for a second before someone taps me on the shoulder and goes "Never have I ever...have you ever done anal?" I look at him and go "No," I then turn to her and ask her, who says "No", and giggles. The guy taps me again and said "Have you ever kissed a boy?" To which I say no and then jokingly ask her, who was like "well, obviously." We get our heads in together real close and eye contact strong when I go "Who was the best guy you kissed?" "A Lithuanian guy", and then we kiss. Nothing special, 3 or 4 short ones with a bit of tongue. We both pull back and goes "Still a Lithuanian guy."
Cheeky bitch.
In hindsight at this time I should have asked about the best guy she's slept with and if she said a Lithuanian guy, I could have joked about all Lithuanians being good lovers or something, but I missed that opportunity. We then move around a bit, she sits on my lap or if we were standing sometimes she would move closer and take my arm and put it around her waist.
It gets confusing on who's leaving when but we decide to call it a night and head off. We had already said earlier we would walk back together as we live near each other, but this wasn't even mentioned when we were leaving. I was just like "Let's go" and that was it. Walking home we were holding hands the entire way and kissing now and then, nothing MAJOR but enough to still be showing interest. There were times I thought I wouldn't let my hand dangle and she still took my arm or took my hand. We then got to the split off road, where we could have split, but I said I was walking her home, as her feet were hurting and she was slightly drunk. We get to her place and she turns around as if to say goodnight. The first thing I thought of to get inside was asking to use her toilet. (I genuinely needed it, too). She complies.
The entire night she had been saying how she would have to get up at like 8am to go and write an extremely important essay, and I got a vibe that I wasn't going to be able sleep with her that night. She doesn't seem like a first-sex date girl and even if I tried, I would have got a LOT of resistance.
Which I got.
After coming out the toilet she was waiting there on her phone and she says how she's got to go and sleep in order to get up. We start kissing and in-between kisses we talk about her essay topic and how it's about feminism and society. I say that really boring but she says it'll be fine as she's a Feminist.
And this is happening and she is pushing me backwards towards the front door of the house. She starts saying how women are rational and men just think with their body parts, still in-between kisses. She then pushes me up against the door and whilst kissing says "Go" and opens the door. I have no choice but to leave. Possibly the biggest resistance I've ever encountered.
And that's it.
To be honest I'm not seeing this as a Fuck up, hence why it's a FR+. For me, it's progress. I had always got this vibe off her that she didn't like me in that way and she was with the male dance teacher. So to go from that to then being all over me and happily kissing me is progress I'm happy with, especially as it was in front of so many friends all night.
The problem now, chaps, is that I have no idea how to proceed
I'll see her tomorrow night for some social dancing and I can't imagine her being as touchy/kissing as last night, especially as all the dance people will be there.
Just us you know, I'm not looking for a relationship here. A lay would be ideal. I have my operation in a month, which will have a 3 month recovery period and then I move to Germany in March so my next 5 months have already been determined for me. Therefore a relationship would not really be practical at all.
The only thing I can think of me doing wrong was not being dominant enough and her kicking me out was a shit test. Seeing how male dominant I was. Not enough apparently. But I always got a vibe off her that I wouldn't be able to sleep with her straight away anyway.
But being kicked out whilst being kissed?
That's new.
Cheers,
- JP
