LMR from virgins

[Pato]

Hey guys,

I've got my school dance coming up soon and I'm hoping to hook up with my date. We aren't dating or anything, but I know that she is at least somewhat interested in me. We are both juniors in high school, and I know that my date is a virgin for sure (as am I), and the group of friends/the people in our group are as well. The group basically views sex as going too far, and not what good guys and good girls do. There will be alcohol at the party, so that may or may not help my situation.

Anyways, in general, how different is LMR from virgins than from girls who are more sexually experienced? Will it be much more difficult to escalate with a virgin vs. a more experienced girl, or is it pretty similar? I'm expecting a ton of resistance, and I was wondering if there is anything I can do that will reduce the LMR that I get, or even avoid it altogether. Would most of the techniques on here apply to virgins at a younger age? With it being high school, I can see her reputation being a factor in her choices, so I know that I need to be discrete and non-judgemental. If anyone has any advice for this situation or just in general for dealing with LMR and escalating with women, that would be really great.

Also, any additional advice for making her first time more pleasurable, more comfortable, and less painful would be appreciated.

Thanks a lot,
Pato

 

[Novacane]

From my experience I can tell you that you would want to move quick but at a reasonable pace as to not raise red flags within the girls head. Seeing as how you are both inexperienced I would build comfort with her while handling your fundamentals, while you two are in public or at this part (Try not to over due it and employ the law of least effort to get her a little more in the chase position). By the time you two are alone and may not be interrupted for a period of time I suggest you take the lead and reassure her that you have her best interest in mind, to get over the LMR i'd suggest guiding her and getting her sexually comfortable. There is one thing I can not stress enough if you are to take this girls virginity you must be absolutely CLEAR on what she will be expecting after the act is done, meaning do not give her the idea that it will spawn a relationship if that is not what you are looking for in the end, as for her reputation it is imperative that you keep your intentions subtle while in public (in this case not a private area at the party) as to not alarm those around who may have something to say about the two of you hooking up. Hopefully things go well, and you end up leaving that party with a grin on your face! All the best.