LMR to sex

[Peleus]

Hi guys,

The last two girls that I brought back to my place have been complete failures. Blue balls both times, UGH.

First Girl:

Brought her back to my place after a day party. As we are escalating, she says that we are not having sex, to which I give a smile and keep escalating. I keep escalating, eventually finger her. I titty fuck her and am hard now. My cock is literally next to her pussy, she resists. I question why. She says because we just met and she doesn't have sex that quickly. I tell her that I feel like we connected and ask if she felt comfortable with me. She says yes. I then tell her that I am not going to pressure her into doing anything she does not want to do. I can't change her mind.

Second Girl:

Bring home after first date. Same shit, she says that she doesn't have sex that quickly. I use the same techniques. Leave with blue balls.


Questions:

What is the line between persistence and being manipulative? When I keep persisting, it feels like I am desperate for sex. If she keeps resisting and says that she just met me and doesn't have sex this quickly, should I logically tell her that we connected and go over the things that we connected over. I am really trying to fix this whole in my game. I am thinking that if she resists to sex multiple times, I should tell her that we should just be friends because sex in a relationship is very important to me. Would that be a good technique? It is tough when you escalate that far, keep persisting and do not seal the deal, because second chances are rare at that point.

-Peleus

 

[Ree]

In the same boat as u .....i pull succesfully...then lmr breaks me down...like 5 times in a row....titty fucking....dry humping....no sex tho...the advice i get is wash rinse repeat....hahaha....i think skilled seducers sometimes either must not concioysly know what they are doing right ..or they cant explain it....anyway if u ever figure this out...holla...

 

[Dude909]

You don't overcome LMR, you prevent it.

LMR means you've fucked up. You have escalated innoportunately, too fast, too early, or in an uncalibrated way, or all of them.

Learn how to increase sexual tension, turn her on and bypass ASD, how to read her cues and escalate at the right moment, pace, and in the right way, and LMR will become a thing of the past, like scorbut.

 

[Peleus]

check out the book I wrote specifically to respond to your issue:

http://www.amazon.com/Straight-Sex-Plac ... exel+scott

Thanks Drex. Just got the book and will let you know what I think.

-Peleus

 

[Ree]

@drex

Fuck. meant to buy this a while back. Buying right now. This same shit is a sticking point for me for way too long now.

Radeng

So therapeutic being in the community.....i get a sticking point that i think is unique to me.....i pop into the forums to see that its commomn....lol..guess im not so special after all