Hello,
I'm writing this report about a party last night, where I got screwed by logistics, even though I considered that I had good logistics. I guess it's all relative after all.
The holidays are over, I'm back to Paris, there was one of those big parties at my university where a lot of students bring people they know. When I got there it wasn't very much the party I had anticipated. After a while I ran into my Brazilian friends. One of them had his sister with him (she's kinda cute); who was visiting him for the holidays, And as soon as I met her, I noticed that she was interested and more or less DTF. Very touchy, asking me if I dance and inviting me to dance with them and so on.
To spare you all the unnecessary details, I split from the group, then I came back and joined them, they were on the dance floor. I danced with them a bit, and I chatted with the sister. She told me how she's leaving tomorrow morning, and she's staying with her brother in his room etc..., then suddenly everyone was gone elsewhere, so I danced with her, getting more touchy but nothing too wild. Then they came back and it was an on/off kind of thing. But still she always would start to tell me stuff out of the blue, and reciprocating touch and so on. So my mind was starting to thing about logistics. She's staying in her brother's room in the building right above the party (the main residence building for the university), and my place is 15 minutes away by foot.
Then at one point she asks me something, so I use the opportunity and tell her to come with me outside because I can't hear her, she happily agrees. We go out of the room with the dance floor, into the main hall, but we're still inside, and in my mind I want to get her out of the entire place, especially since her brother is there and I don't want him to see me kissing her or something. We talk for a bit, I'm teasing her and flirting with her, then I tell her to go outside with me, as in the outer part where people smoke, so we're still in the place. I tell her to wear her jacket, I grab mine and we go outside. The temperature was -6 degrees C, and she didn't wear a lot of stuff for the cold. I'm leaning against the wall, talking to her, and trying to figure out how to get her out of there when she suddenly jumps forward and starts kissing me. My first thought was "Damn did I leave her hanging so much?", the tension was there, I could feel it, but I didn't do anything because I was thinking of going outside. We kept making out for a bit, then she started asking me if she was a good kisser and if she is pretty and all this shit. It was an on/off kind of thing. Then I decided to kiss her neck a little bit. She giggled and told me that if we continue like this we would have to get a room. I tell her that my room is far away, and ask her if she has a key for hers. She says no and that she doesn't want to ask her brother for it now.
After that we kissed a bit more then went back inside. And eventually I left.
Conclusion
There I was, thinking that I finally have good logistics, a place of my own, but in this case it wasn't enough for me to seal the deal. Logistics are relative to the situation after all. I don't know what else I could have done, especially considering that she wasn't dressed for the cold, so even taking a walk outside was out of the question.
One more thing is the mentality when it comes to kissing in the whole process. In France (and in Brazil too) it's totally normal for a girl to make out with one or many guys in a party, which is a bit different from the GC mentality of waiting until you're in a seduction location. Which is probably why I was waiting to kiss her.
I'm writing this report about a party last night, where I got screwed by logistics, even though I considered that I had good logistics. I guess it's all relative after all.
The holidays are over, I'm back to Paris, there was one of those big parties at my university where a lot of students bring people they know. When I got there it wasn't very much the party I had anticipated. After a while I ran into my Brazilian friends. One of them had his sister with him (she's kinda cute); who was visiting him for the holidays, And as soon as I met her, I noticed that she was interested and more or less DTF. Very touchy, asking me if I dance and inviting me to dance with them and so on.
To spare you all the unnecessary details, I split from the group, then I came back and joined them, they were on the dance floor. I danced with them a bit, and I chatted with the sister. She told me how she's leaving tomorrow morning, and she's staying with her brother in his room etc..., then suddenly everyone was gone elsewhere, so I danced with her, getting more touchy but nothing too wild. Then they came back and it was an on/off kind of thing. But still she always would start to tell me stuff out of the blue, and reciprocating touch and so on. So my mind was starting to thing about logistics. She's staying in her brother's room in the building right above the party (the main residence building for the university), and my place is 15 minutes away by foot.
Then at one point she asks me something, so I use the opportunity and tell her to come with me outside because I can't hear her, she happily agrees. We go out of the room with the dance floor, into the main hall, but we're still inside, and in my mind I want to get her out of the entire place, especially since her brother is there and I don't want him to see me kissing her or something. We talk for a bit, I'm teasing her and flirting with her, then I tell her to go outside with me, as in the outer part where people smoke, so we're still in the place. I tell her to wear her jacket, I grab mine and we go outside. The temperature was -6 degrees C, and she didn't wear a lot of stuff for the cold. I'm leaning against the wall, talking to her, and trying to figure out how to get her out of there when she suddenly jumps forward and starts kissing me. My first thought was "Damn did I leave her hanging so much?", the tension was there, I could feel it, but I didn't do anything because I was thinking of going outside. We kept making out for a bit, then she started asking me if she was a good kisser and if she is pretty and all this shit. It was an on/off kind of thing. Then I decided to kiss her neck a little bit. She giggled and told me that if we continue like this we would have to get a room. I tell her that my room is far away, and ask her if she has a key for hers. She says no and that she doesn't want to ask her brother for it now.
After that we kissed a bit more then went back inside. And eventually I left.
Conclusion
There I was, thinking that I finally have good logistics, a place of my own, but in this case it wasn't enough for me to seal the deal. Logistics are relative to the situation after all. I don't know what else I could have done, especially considering that she wasn't dressed for the cold, so even taking a walk outside was out of the question.
One more thing is the mentality when it comes to kissing in the whole process. In France (and in Brazil too) it's totally normal for a girl to make out with one or many guys in a party, which is a bit different from the GC mentality of waiting until you're in a seduction location. Which is probably why I was waiting to kiss her.
