I've travelled in Europe quite a bit and stayed in touch with some interesting girls over socials. There are a few that seem interested in visiting me now that I'm based in 1 location but because we didn't sleep together yet when we met, it's like - they would propose the idea and then kind of flake on it. I don't do long texts with these girls, sometimes not messaging for 6-12 months but usually have a quick flirty catchup at least 1/2 a year.
What's the best way to lead the text convo to try and get them over the logistical issues and visit me. Sometimes I feel I text too aloof but I also get resistance anytime I try to spike up the temperature. And another is giving me GF vibes which I do not want. I.e. I would rather her not visit me if expectations are not managed but it feels tough to do that over text.
I don't put a lot of effort on these girls as they are not in my location but I sometimes feel like I'm missing out as they are already warmed up to me. If I share a decent story on Insta, quite often I would get likes from girls in haven't talked in ages. I know likes don't necessarily mean anything but well if it's over a continuous period...
What's the best way to lead the text convo to try and get them over the logistical issues and visit me. Sometimes I feel I text too aloof but I also get resistance anytime I try to spike up the temperature. And another is giving me GF vibes which I do not want. I.e. I would rather her not visit me if expectations are not managed but it feels tough to do that over text.
I don't put a lot of effort on these girls as they are not in my location but I sometimes feel like I'm missing out as they are already warmed up to me. If I share a decent story on Insta, quite often I would get likes from girls in haven't talked in ages. I know likes don't necessarily mean anything but well if it's over a continuous period...