Long game with a girl u slept with but she's moving away

[Smith]

Hey guys,

So I just sort of ended things with a girl who I've been seeing in the last 5-6 weeks. She's going back to her country and there's probably a very small chance of us ever seeing each other again unless we go visit each other. It was hard saying goodbye and our last night was pretty fun and memorable, one that I'll remember for a long time. Even took some photos with her polaroid camera She kept saying I should go visit her, but I was being vague about when I'll visit because I don't wanna make promises that I can't keep or get her hopes up. Then she joked about how if I come, we'll have so much sex.
I teased her "what if you've a bf or you're married?".
Her: "I'll just cheat. No one will know haha....nooo I'm just kidding."
Me: "hahaha"

Anyway, she's been snapchatting me ever since we said goodbye a few days ago, and we went back and forth with some dirty jokes. However, I'm a little exhausted with snapchatting everyday and I'm sick of it TBH. but at the same time, I don't want her to go cold or feel rejected. I accidentally told her on our last night that I deleted a lot of numbers on my phone and she seemed a little hurt and scared that I'll delete her number when she's gone, which is irrational but I joked around with her that I'll give her 2.5 years before I delete her number.

Now I don't know where this thing between us is heading. I didn't expect to snapchat with her that often when she left. She's still touring around my country and is leaving at the end of Nov. I feel like cutting down on snapchat, but then I'm not sure how to stay in touch with her in the long run when she's back to her country. Any ideas?? I know people move on eventually, but how frequent should I reach out to her just so that things are still alive if I do visit her in the future?

Thanks!
Smith

 

[Bboy100]

Personally, I would Skype her every once in a while. It's more efficient and real than Snapchat. And you don't have to do it as often so you "feel in touch".
If that doesn't sound suitable to you, think of it this way- how would you stay in touch with relatives or friends you cared about if they moved to a different country? Whatever your answer is, you could probably do the same with her.

 

[Richard]

I've tried to keep in contact in situations like this and they never work out. Out of sight, out of mind definitely applies here. Let just a few days go between you two after you can no longer see one another and all the magic disappears.

I found it better just to accept the situation for what it is, and move on from there. You two had memories, so let them be memories.

Get out there and approach some new girls.