I was doing some day game. Had some good approaches and some okay ones. Started to be seeming to lose my excitement and was contemplating calling it a day. I had approached 8 girls total and got 2 phone numbers, both girls were busy and some of the other ones had boyfriends or it just didn't click
So i was about to call it a day when i seen this red headed girl. I almost didn't approach her, at first glance didn't look too hot but i think i could sense she seemed cool, something about her got me to approach her, i think i could just sense that she seemed approachable, like she was down to talk and she was dressed nice, had glasses and was tall with a nice body, her purse strap went over her shoulder between her tits on her nice tight fitting shirt. Made her tits stand out and they looked sexy as fuck. Started walking with her, told her she looked nice, she reacted very warmly. Didn't seem surprised i approached her. Seemed chill and happy and cool. When i asked what she was doing she just said she was exploring madison like she used to when she went to school here. I was thinking nice, because she was free, haha, and i hate just getting numbers because they flake. So i kept walking with her, felt real good. At the red light we stopped behind this big group of people, she told me she was a musician and actress, i joked that we were soulmates, she laughed. Pretty soon i suggested we go get coffee, she thought about it and was like, sure. So we did. I never started feeling uncomfortable, i remember years ago when id try an instant date id somehow psych myself out when they agree to it and i wouldn't be as carefree as i was before that, that didn't seem to happen here. We got our coffee and i said we'd walk, an adventure, she asked where and i said the lake.
We got to the lake and kept walking and she just stopped and sat down on a ledge, a great idea, i should have suggested that myself, felt sort of weird how she was leading. But we sat and enjoyed our coffee, talked for a while. At times i was getting so horny while making eye contact and wanted to kiss her real bad but didn't want to fuck things up, thought thatd be too intense and could lead to flaking or resistance to being alone. Wasn't sure what to do, so i didn't kiss her and left all that tension there. Then i suggested we go find a bathroom, i had to pee, and then i led us to the pier and we sat there, was 60 degrees and we were by the ice. Then later i started getting cold and suggested we start walking again. Whole time felt like she was into me. Like i got the vibe that she seemed to view me as higher status than her. Shed laugh all the time.
Then i got cold and decided to lead her to my car and thought maybe i could suggest she listen to my cool sound system and use that as an excuse to go for a drive and get her to my place. She told me she lives with three roommates. On my way to my car though she just stepped aside and sat on this ledge. And i was almost there. I told her i was cold and had to get my coat. At my car i chickened out with having her get in and thats when she asked me what i was doing down here. I felt a little nervous and lied and said i was about to play basketball with one of my friends but he backed out and i just decided to walk around after that. I hated lying and i sometimes suck at it and i felt she probably knew i lied. After that she seemed a little distant but maybe it was because i got worried about lying but she also said she had to pee really bad and we looked for a place to do that and i think she was just distracted because of that.
Then while walking my female friend bumped into me. She saw me from far away. She was with her guy roommate who ive met before. They invited us to go drink with them. The girl seemed down to tag along. Just went with the flow. Really did not know what to do to be honest. We went to a bar and all got food and a pitcher of beer. Then we went to another bar a far walk away. She was getting along with my friends real great. Outgoing girl. At the next bar after my friends decided to leave, we stayed and talked sitting across a small table from each other. First time we had constistent long eye contact. She was laughing so hard at what i was saying, cracking tons of jokes, was full of energy. She finished her beer so slow and when she finally did i suggest we get up and go. I even grabbed her hand and it felt so effortless and it was so smooth and she went along with it and then she said she had to text her friend. I let go of her hand and then sat back down. She said she had already made plans to hang with her friend who was a guy. She texted back and forth with him for a while before finding out he was too tired. So we sat there for a little while longer, she seemed in no hurry to leave, it was strange to me. I started getting bored. I wanted to fuck her. I easily earlier thought about doing that move that i seen todd do where he stood up, walked over, and kissed her, damn, maybe i should have, idk, i felt very confident it would have been smooth and that she would have kissed me but i decided not too for those reasons i didn't kiss her earlier. Didn't want it to be too much. And we weren't even alone.
So i started getting bored and i think i hinted at leaving but she just seemed to be lingering and didn't wanna leave for some reason. I trusted that she just needed to be more comfortable. I started getting in my head a little, actually too into my body, she wasn't laughing as hard anymore and eventually it was getting so late i said we should go. We finally left. Probably 7hrs after talking to her. She told me she loves meeting new people and told me stories of talking to strangers for hours. When we went out the door she just started walking to the left, i knew she lived nearby and figured id just follow her. So without mentioning that fact i kept talking about whatever, we told more stories till i showed up at her place. Outside her house i finished a story and suggested we watch a documentary. She said not tonight but that some other time. I didn't push for it and said okay and got her number. I said i know you wont respond to me. Kind of as a joke but sort of serious. She was like well i guess ill have to now to prove you wrong, i said okay. she asked if that was why i said that and i said yeah. We hugged long and tight and then said goodbye. I didn't give her a kiss at the end, ive never felt comfortable doing a goodbye kiss.
Should i have kissed her when i wanted to by the lake? Or at the bar after my friends left? Should i have forced us to leave earlier? Should i have kissed her at the end when we hugged goodbye? What would you guys have done differently? Potentially we'll just hang out again sometime and fuck and everything will be fine, but i guess we'll see, you never know lol
So i was about to call it a day when i seen this red headed girl. I almost didn't approach her, at first glance didn't look too hot but i think i could sense she seemed cool, something about her got me to approach her, i think i could just sense that she seemed approachable, like she was down to talk and she was dressed nice, had glasses and was tall with a nice body, her purse strap went over her shoulder between her tits on her nice tight fitting shirt. Made her tits stand out and they looked sexy as fuck. Started walking with her, told her she looked nice, she reacted very warmly. Didn't seem surprised i approached her. Seemed chill and happy and cool. When i asked what she was doing she just said she was exploring madison like she used to when she went to school here. I was thinking nice, because she was free, haha, and i hate just getting numbers because they flake. So i kept walking with her, felt real good. At the red light we stopped behind this big group of people, she told me she was a musician and actress, i joked that we were soulmates, she laughed. Pretty soon i suggested we go get coffee, she thought about it and was like, sure. So we did. I never started feeling uncomfortable, i remember years ago when id try an instant date id somehow psych myself out when they agree to it and i wouldn't be as carefree as i was before that, that didn't seem to happen here. We got our coffee and i said we'd walk, an adventure, she asked where and i said the lake.
We got to the lake and kept walking and she just stopped and sat down on a ledge, a great idea, i should have suggested that myself, felt sort of weird how she was leading. But we sat and enjoyed our coffee, talked for a while. At times i was getting so horny while making eye contact and wanted to kiss her real bad but didn't want to fuck things up, thought thatd be too intense and could lead to flaking or resistance to being alone. Wasn't sure what to do, so i didn't kiss her and left all that tension there. Then i suggested we go find a bathroom, i had to pee, and then i led us to the pier and we sat there, was 60 degrees and we were by the ice. Then later i started getting cold and suggested we start walking again. Whole time felt like she was into me. Like i got the vibe that she seemed to view me as higher status than her. Shed laugh all the time.
Then i got cold and decided to lead her to my car and thought maybe i could suggest she listen to my cool sound system and use that as an excuse to go for a drive and get her to my place. She told me she lives with three roommates. On my way to my car though she just stepped aside and sat on this ledge. And i was almost there. I told her i was cold and had to get my coat. At my car i chickened out with having her get in and thats when she asked me what i was doing down here. I felt a little nervous and lied and said i was about to play basketball with one of my friends but he backed out and i just decided to walk around after that. I hated lying and i sometimes suck at it and i felt she probably knew i lied. After that she seemed a little distant but maybe it was because i got worried about lying but she also said she had to pee really bad and we looked for a place to do that and i think she was just distracted because of that.
Then while walking my female friend bumped into me. She saw me from far away. She was with her guy roommate who ive met before. They invited us to go drink with them. The girl seemed down to tag along. Just went with the flow. Really did not know what to do to be honest. We went to a bar and all got food and a pitcher of beer. Then we went to another bar a far walk away. She was getting along with my friends real great. Outgoing girl. At the next bar after my friends decided to leave, we stayed and talked sitting across a small table from each other. First time we had constistent long eye contact. She was laughing so hard at what i was saying, cracking tons of jokes, was full of energy. She finished her beer so slow and when she finally did i suggest we get up and go. I even grabbed her hand and it felt so effortless and it was so smooth and she went along with it and then she said she had to text her friend. I let go of her hand and then sat back down. She said she had already made plans to hang with her friend who was a guy. She texted back and forth with him for a while before finding out he was too tired. So we sat there for a little while longer, she seemed in no hurry to leave, it was strange to me. I started getting bored. I wanted to fuck her. I easily earlier thought about doing that move that i seen todd do where he stood up, walked over, and kissed her, damn, maybe i should have, idk, i felt very confident it would have been smooth and that she would have kissed me but i decided not too for those reasons i didn't kiss her earlier. Didn't want it to be too much. And we weren't even alone.
So i started getting bored and i think i hinted at leaving but she just seemed to be lingering and didn't wanna leave for some reason. I trusted that she just needed to be more comfortable. I started getting in my head a little, actually too into my body, she wasn't laughing as hard anymore and eventually it was getting so late i said we should go. We finally left. Probably 7hrs after talking to her. She told me she loves meeting new people and told me stories of talking to strangers for hours. When we went out the door she just started walking to the left, i knew she lived nearby and figured id just follow her. So without mentioning that fact i kept talking about whatever, we told more stories till i showed up at her place. Outside her house i finished a story and suggested we watch a documentary. She said not tonight but that some other time. I didn't push for it and said okay and got her number. I said i know you wont respond to me. Kind of as a joke but sort of serious. She was like well i guess ill have to now to prove you wrong, i said okay. she asked if that was why i said that and i said yeah. We hugged long and tight and then said goodbye. I didn't give her a kiss at the end, ive never felt comfortable doing a goodbye kiss.
Should i have kissed her when i wanted to by the lake? Or at the bar after my friends left? Should i have forced us to leave earlier? Should i have kissed her at the end when we hugged goodbye? What would you guys have done differently? Potentially we'll just hang out again sometime and fuck and everything will be fine, but i guess we'll see, you never know lol
