long term relationship with 2 girls at same time.

[Anonymous]

Hi, I am looking for advice / personal experience to help me out here.
First of all, if i am going to get trolled then fair enough I will just leave as I am not wanted.
If you will ignore the morals or lack of them in my case and just give me advice then that would be great.

Been seeing a girl for 3 years. everything is great, really like her. Cons of her is she is not too bright, but I am very happy and do love her.

Just recently at work I have been flirting (and sexually flirting through texts) she wants to start a relationship, as do I, she is young very clever and ambitious.

My work is in a different city and they have no one in the same social circles. dont use facebook / social media so no problems there.

I see my current GF on Friday and Sat and have a good excuse not to be there for GF 2, and she even works on weekends as well.

What do I want? I want to see how things play out with GF2. I think we will have a great time but as I am moving work again i think things will fizzle out in a few months due to long distance relationship. (already travelling an hour to work)

What advice do I want? general advice on how not to get caught out, bail out plans for GF2 based on my brief scenario.

Ok, if you are interested in the why am I such a fucktard then read below.

Was a virgin till 23. GF1 i met at 25, second person I had sex with 5th time of ever having sex. Ive changed my looks and appearance during my 20's and I cant believe someone like me who use to be really ugly is now getting attention from girls (and good looking 1s too!) and god dammit I just want to try another person out as they are attracted to me, helps my ego / confidence and i really feel like i missed out in my younger days.
Not an excuse, just saying.

Thanks for reading <3

 

[Thedoctor]

Hey Elemental,

I think cheating is a fairly simple thing one can do without getting caught. That being said it's not something I've ever done for the simple reason that if I'm tempted to cheat, obviously it's no longer working with the girl I'm dating at the time so I end it. That's my personal opinion, and I realize this is always a delicate topic that often starts very heated debates, so I won't get into that here since clearly it's not what you're after.

Now, seeing as how you called yourself a "fucktard" and also imply in your post that you also feel there are moral implications, I get the impression that a part of you wouldn't feel so great with doing this. It really sounds more like an "abundance mentality" issue more than anything else. My advice would be to cut it off with GF 1 and pursue GF 2 or just look for new girls altogether. The reason I say this is it sounds like you want to explore your options a bit, but you're afraid that if you do you might lose all the girls and be back to square one. I won't go too much into this as Chase does a much better job explaining it in the "abundance mentality" posts. Start with this one:
https://www.girlschase.com/content/absolute-abundance

If after all that you still want advice on cheating, I'm sure you could find lots of info if you googled it, not that I condone that by any means.

Hope all that helps

-Doc