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Can this be avoided?
I can talk to girls for a few months and enjoy it, but once we have sex, I lose A LOT of interest.
For example, this weekend I had sex w two girls, both of whom I had been casually talking to for a few weeks. I didn't mind talking to them and enjoyed it BUT now that we've had sex - i don't know, I'd rather focus on work than on making small talk w them or setting up plans with them for next weekend.
I feel bad because I know that these girls probably expect me to talk to them a bit more often than i've been doing, but it's just like a natural reaction that I have to lose some interest after sex (and not bad sex either). Is there an article about this? Or is this just a natural reaction that all dudes have?
I can talk to girls for a few months and enjoy it, but once we have sex, I lose A LOT of interest.
For example, this weekend I had sex w two girls, both of whom I had been casually talking to for a few weeks. I didn't mind talking to them and enjoyed it BUT now that we've had sex - i don't know, I'd rather focus on work than on making small talk w them or setting up plans with them for next weekend.
I feel bad because I know that these girls probably expect me to talk to them a bit more often than i've been doing, but it's just like a natural reaction that I have to lose some interest after sex (and not bad sex either). Is there an article about this? Or is this just a natural reaction that all dudes have?