Lost all motivation for girls

[maestro]

Hi,

I will make this as short and concise as possible.
I'm 29 and I know for pickup since I was 19. Read mystery method and started gaming. I had success immediately because I was never bad with girls per se. Pickup literature was something very interesting to me and gave me insights into social dynamics and helped me much.
After sleeping with few girls I ended in a relationship for 6 years. Ended that because I was not happy anymore and returned to gaming again.

I am single now for almost 4 years. I had a lot of mini-relationships, one night stands, and FWB situations. I slept with around 30 girls in this period.

Now, since the start of this year, I have lost all motivation to go out to nightclubs and to meet girls in general.When I go out, I don't feel the vibe anymore and girls can sense this too.Feels like I am just going through the motions. I still have one girl I am seeing but I will end this too.

I know that it is good to take breaks sometimes, and I had small breaks here and there. But, this situation with low interest and motivation is bugging me since summer.

I just, don't find girls interesting anymore and feel somewhat apathetic..i don't know. It just doesn't make me happy to go out. It feels like a loss of money, time and i would rather stay home and work on my business. But then when I hear my boys and their stories about girls they have met I feel like I am missing out on something.
Like this is not normal and I should be out somewhere when the weekend comes.
Have any of you had a phase like this? How did you solve it?

Is this maybe a sign that i should find a girlfriend...I will be 30 in a few months.

 

[Lotus]

It sounds like your tired of meeting girls out at clubs and bars specifically and have associated women = losing money. That would turn me off also.

What other avenues to meeting girls have you explored?

 

[maestro]

That's true, I'm tired of meeting girls in clubs and bars. Of all the girls I've met in clubs, not one passed my relationship material criteria. The same is with the online game.
I also tried day game a few times but it is not very convenient to do daygame all the time.

I don't usually drink much when I go out, maybe 1-2 drinks max, but when you add gas for the car, parking, club cover, dates etc, lost sleep and opportunity cost that adds up quickly, so you can say that you lose money.

I just read Drck's post- don't make women your priority in life and I must say, perfect timing. I totally agree.

I just came to the conclusion that I should take a break from the game, but I have some fear of missing out on something. When, in reality, I won't miss anything.