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Towards the end of the night, these two girls arrived up to lean on a space that was over looking the dance floor. I interacted briefly with the better looking one of the two. She looked very receptive towards me, but at the same time she was quite tired. At one point she put her head down on the table-top surface that we were leaning on.
And for that reason alone, I remember thinking something like "oh she's tired, that means that she won't be up for it." And I remember thinking about how I wouldn't have picked up on that when I was younger. But in this case, my experience proved counter-productive in comparison to the novelty of being the new guy. I sort of spent the next few minutes feeling like an amber light.
Then I noticed a guy leaning railings in the corner of the dance floor. He was just about 9 feet away, but on the other side. For some reason, he gave me the thumbs up expecting me to return it with the same gesture. I, being alone in the club, liked the idea of being part of something, and of course returned the gesture. Only a few moments later, did he come up behind this girl, and put his arms around in front of her... sort of hugging her. From then on, how bad or good I felt was dependent on this guy's success with the girl. He ended up making out with her. It then all made perfect sense at that moment.
Then the three of them left together. He arrived back upstairs alone later, so he obviously didn't go home with her in the end. But little did I know, that he may have only interacted with me to access the situation was between myself and the girl.
And for that reason alone, I remember thinking something like "oh she's tired, that means that she won't be up for it." And I remember thinking about how I wouldn't have picked up on that when I was younger. But in this case, my experience proved counter-productive in comparison to the novelty of being the new guy. I sort of spent the next few minutes feeling like an amber light.
Then I noticed a guy leaning railings in the corner of the dance floor. He was just about 9 feet away, but on the other side. For some reason, he gave me the thumbs up expecting me to return it with the same gesture. I, being alone in the club, liked the idea of being part of something, and of course returned the gesture. Only a few moments later, did he come up behind this girl, and put his arms around in front of her... sort of hugging her. From then on, how bad or good I felt was dependent on this guy's success with the girl. He ended up making out with her. It then all made perfect sense at that moment.
Then the three of them left together. He arrived back upstairs alone later, so he obviously didn't go home with her in the end. But little did I know, that he may have only interacted with me to access the situation was between myself and the girl.
