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Hello Girlschase, it is nice to finally make a post on your forum after following your blog for quite some time.
I have been pursuing PUA and seduction material for a few years now and it has made me go from a kissless virgin to racking up a few notches on my bedpost. Because of PUA I have become more social and more open to meeting people but at times this has hurt me. I am still young (20) and in college where I have a lot of friends. Throughout my life I have been told by close friends and even some strangers that I am a good looking guy which made learning PUA and all of the materials that go with it come naturally to me because I had some self-esteem to build on. Thanks to traveling, going on vacation, and visiting friends in other states I was able to get into some nice parties which put me into contact with hot girls and the rest was history.
Then college came around and I noticed some changes. I go to a big university (ACC conference) and I have not had too tough of a time making friends. One of my best friends at this college who I have known for quite some time and has been like a brother to me has classically handsome looks (everyone says this). He gets told he looks like Henry Cavill quite a lot, he has the blue eyes, brown hair, and tanned skin which has women approaching him sometimes.
I DID read your articles about looks where you said hot guys were not always dating hot girls but he seems to always get some of the finest girls on campus for one night stands and relationships.
Then you have me, I am tall and I consider myself good looking but as you can tell by name, I am Asian.
I also read your article done by your Asian friend who said it should be any different for an Asian guy than it should be for a White guy but I have found that hard to believe in college.
Ever since I entered college I have managed to rack up 4 notches with girls that were hot but I have also had girls say "you're not my type" or "I am just not into Asian guys" which has hurt my self-esteem. I have started to have a lower self-esteem after being around my friend and seeing him get approached and showered with compliments while I pretty much to work for most of my notches and rarely get the same treatment in college than I used to get when I was out in the real world.
How do I recover from this? Should I just stop hanging out with my friend?
I have been pursuing PUA and seduction material for a few years now and it has made me go from a kissless virgin to racking up a few notches on my bedpost. Because of PUA I have become more social and more open to meeting people but at times this has hurt me. I am still young (20) and in college where I have a lot of friends. Throughout my life I have been told by close friends and even some strangers that I am a good looking guy which made learning PUA and all of the materials that go with it come naturally to me because I had some self-esteem to build on. Thanks to traveling, going on vacation, and visiting friends in other states I was able to get into some nice parties which put me into contact with hot girls and the rest was history.
Then college came around and I noticed some changes. I go to a big university (ACC conference) and I have not had too tough of a time making friends. One of my best friends at this college who I have known for quite some time and has been like a brother to me has classically handsome looks (everyone says this). He gets told he looks like Henry Cavill quite a lot, he has the blue eyes, brown hair, and tanned skin which has women approaching him sometimes.
I DID read your articles about looks where you said hot guys were not always dating hot girls but he seems to always get some of the finest girls on campus for one night stands and relationships.
Then you have me, I am tall and I consider myself good looking but as you can tell by name, I am Asian.
I also read your article done by your Asian friend who said it should be any different for an Asian guy than it should be for a White guy but I have found that hard to believe in college.
Ever since I entered college I have managed to rack up 4 notches with girls that were hot but I have also had girls say "you're not my type" or "I am just not into Asian guys" which has hurt my self-esteem. I have started to have a lower self-esteem after being around my friend and seeing him get approached and showered with compliments while I pretty much to work for most of my notches and rarely get the same treatment in college than I used to get when I was out in the real world.
How do I recover from this? Should I just stop hanging out with my friend?
