Okay, so here's the back story: I had my 3rd date with the 2nd lady that I met on Tinder. I went to a restaurant and she suggested that we go somewhere to talk more. I took her to a bar/arcade. We chatted there a bit then some more outside. I kissed her on the cheek and she was like that's it? I said "Well, I wonder what your place looks like..I should really see that soon...like now!" She said "Yes, let's do that". So I followed her to her place. She went to clean up her bedroom, and came back down. Then said "Now how about a real kiss", and kissed her. She pushed me back. I said let me try again making out trying to elsewhere. She literally shoved me out of the apartment.
All caught up, good, so I had my 4th date with this girl. I had a trip and she agreed to see me before I disappear for a week. We went to a restaurant and then back to her place to hang out and watch a movie. We chatted a bit more, she laid on me, I started making out, and we went up to her bed early during the movie. Finally, after the 4th date we moved our relationship towards a sexually one (or so I thought). She texted bunches afterwards letting me know that she kept thinking about me.
The Aftermath: When I made it back from my trip she said that she wanted to see me. I met this girl at her place, but she wanted to talk. I brought a movie we actually watched the whole movie. And when I tried to make out I was rebuffed. Basically, she didn't know if I was into her and asked if I was trying to have her as a F*CK buddy. I said that I hadn't even considered that and that I'm just living in the present and trying to enjoy her company. She also explained that she had a good time last time, and was kind of concerned about liking it. I told her we don't have to do anything. Anyway, we made out and eventually sex twice in two places in the apartment. I'm going to meet her again, but don't want to run into an LTR. I also got progress with two other girls. One wants me to call the same day as my next date (that's rough). I quit texting two other girls so I'm staying constant with 4 not 6 that I communicate with. How do you guys do it? Especially, when they demand time and a call. I think I'm missing something. I am genuinely a busy guy, but I guess I compromised too much.
All caught up, good, so I had my 4th date with this girl. I had a trip and she agreed to see me before I disappear for a week. We went to a restaurant and then back to her place to hang out and watch a movie. We chatted a bit more, she laid on me, I started making out, and we went up to her bed early during the movie. Finally, after the 4th date we moved our relationship towards a sexually one (or so I thought). She texted bunches afterwards letting me know that she kept thinking about me.
The Aftermath: When I made it back from my trip she said that she wanted to see me. I met this girl at her place, but she wanted to talk. I brought a movie we actually watched the whole movie. And when I tried to make out I was rebuffed. Basically, she didn't know if I was into her and asked if I was trying to have her as a F*CK buddy. I said that I hadn't even considered that and that I'm just living in the present and trying to enjoy her company. She also explained that she had a good time last time, and was kind of concerned about liking it. I told her we don't have to do anything. Anyway, we made out and eventually sex twice in two places in the apartment. I'm going to meet her again, but don't want to run into an LTR. I also got progress with two other girls. One wants me to call the same day as my next date (that's rough). I quit texting two other girls so I'm staying constant with 4 not 6 that I communicate with. How do you guys do it? Especially, when they demand time and a call. I think I'm missing something. I am genuinely a busy guy, but I guess I compromised too much.