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Ken

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This is the first Field Report that I've written in the forum. I approached a few girls before, but never reported it on here.

So anyway, I was in college earlier, looking for girls to talk to. Tutoring for the specific class that I was going to didn't start for another few minutes, and I had no classes today, so I had some time to kill. I passed up a few opportunities to talk to a few girls. Including before I got to campus.

So as I was walking, I saw a white girl with long black hair, wearing matching black clothing. She was walking the opposite way from me, so I turned around and walked towards her.

I touch her arm lightly with making eye contact beforehand, and said hi to her. She asked me how I was doing. I said I was good and asked her that same question. I introduced myself, and she told her name was Lulu. I asked her where she was going, she said she was going to advisement for psychology. She asked me where I was going, and told her what I said above about tutoring.

I asked if she was a psych major, and she said yes. We talked about psychology for a bit. She tells me that she wants to become a forensics expert dor the police force, and I told her that when I took Psych 100, I got bored of it when the professor started talking about the science behind the mind, but got interested again when the professor got to Freud. She asks me what my major is, and I tell her English. She said that she wanted to be an English teacher before she got into Psychology.

We got inbetween where she was going and where I was going, but I had a few more minutes to kill, so we walk to where she's going. I ask her what year she's in, and she says she's a senior. She asked me that same question, and I say sophomore. She asks me another question, probably about my age, not sure. I did what Chase suggests in that article about asking out women at the high point, and used that as the opportunity to ask her out for a cup of coffee. She replied that her boyfriend wouldn't like that.

I tell her that I'm not trying to take his place. She knows, but her boyfriend is the jealous type. I asked her if she was the jealous type, and she said no. She gave me a hug, and we went to our respective destinations.

I constantly keep getting these types of results. Either girls lose interest before I ask them out, they tell me that they have boyfriends, or if I do ask them out, we never go on a date. I can tell that she likes me, but I couldn't do anything. So how do I get over this hurdle?
 

Eternity

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Lover value was low. She hooked and asked you questions maybe due to your physical looks or boldness for approaching (post a pic). But all those logical/interviewer questions killed your mystery quick and put her in logical mode not in emotional mode where god damn this guy just makes me tingle for his cock. No cocky/funny, teasing, sexual innuendo .... Of course once she figured out you might've "looked" like a lover, you weren't. Without working them emotions, you are going to get the b.f speech ( I still do). But post a pic or a sound clip of your voice and maybe the board here can guide you towards getting it right. Numbers game brah, its just reference points. You'll find a bitch that will hook, just gotta keep at it.
Props for approaching though!
 

Eternity

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Says file not found.
 

Ken

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Whoops, did it from my phone, with a picture on my phone.
 

Eternity

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Post some more (with your outfits when you go out) and a sound clip of your voice (if you can). My first impression (keeping it real) when I see your face is "boyish", "young/inexperienced" off the bat. Now perhaps your voice and fundamentals are better than what I perceive but if I was you I would invest in the gym. Bulking up and definitely getting a better haircut will help you in attracting more hoes to you. The short hair/buzz look works if you have a "street" face and have the swag to match. Grow your hair longer so you can comb it a certain look you like and a sharp outfit to match your personal style. If I can see what i wrote above, i guarantee you them hoes will sense it 10x fold in person and perhaps that's why you get the ihabf speech A.S.A.P. Practice that sexy smirk so you can get apply it cold when interacting, I don't see it on your photo. Beef up your Facebook with cool city pics or bars/clubs you go to to up your social value, add as many sexy girls as friends as you can (Some will accept, some won't fuck it). Cover all your bases, social media wise to make you look cool, interesting, higher value. But focus first on the physical, then on the rest later.
 

lao che

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freud and kellog. two lunatics responsible for shaping western culture.
sigmund fraud, as i prefer to call him, believed all human problems could be solved by operating on the nose - a direct result of his cocaine addiction. he almost killed a patient when he left some gauze in her nose after an operation, and then, noticing gauze sticking out of her nose, decided to just yank it out rather than open up the wound. she almost bled to death.
kellog is responsible for popularizing circumcision, believing that the trauma of having one's penis cut at an early age would discourage boys from the filthy habit of masturbation.
legitimately crazy people, charlatans who somehow, through the strength of their charisma managed to convince entire generations . talk about this, instead of the usual humdrum stuff. surprise people.

btw

She asks me another question, probably about my age, not sure. I did what Chase suggests in that article about asking out women at the high point

this doesn't sound like a high point.

keep at it bro, it takes time to work on your sexy, but you'll get there. you're already way ahead of most guys. how many people you know could just walk up to a random girl, touch her arm and get talking and walking with her?

keep on keepin on
 

Eternity

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Need some edgier clothes brah. Many men dress like that. Consider getting a new wardrobe or reading Darius posts on fashion or Tanner's blog Masculine Styles on fashion. Again, I also recommend putting an audio file to hear your voice, since tone is also important to work on. Are u in NYC, how bad u want to learn pick up? If u got the cash, I'd consider one on one training. I know of a highly reputable guy in NYC who does coaching. PM me if interested.
 

Ken

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Yes, I live in NYC. As for how bad I want to learn pick up, I will just put it this way. I have either two choices: get better with women, or spend the rest of my life jerking off to Internet porn. While I still jerk off to Internet porn, I don't want to be doing it for the rest of my life. I want to actually have sex with women.
 

lao che

Cro-Magnon Man
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keep trying, keep posting. choose different things to work on step by step. you 're on the right track already and you're definitely in the right place.
i would say, just from reading this thread, that you don't need coaching, but that's up to you.
what eternity says about looks and voice is right. but when we talk about looks, understand that it's not the shape of your face which is important,it's how you present yourself - clothes, hair, posture, facial hair, etc. (i spent years believing i was ugly as hell and that's why i couldn't get girls - now girls look at me like i'm crazy if i tell them that)

keep reading GC, and work on your fundamentals. that's where it's at



as an aside - many in the 'manopshere' give porn a bad rap. i would say porn has it's place, provided it's not a consuming habit. i've personally learned a lot from watching porn
 

thedude

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Good work dude.

I'd also suggest reading the Mystery Method(ignore Mystery when he says it takes 7 hours to get laid <<LOL).

Here's an amazing site/page that will show you how a great interaction is supposed to play out. A guide or blueprint for the things you need to say and in what order.

I wish I would have had this years ago

https://whetyourwoman.com/how-to-practice-pickup/my-routines-collection/

Also this

https://librachronicles.wordpress.c...o-know-to-step-up-your-game-to-another-level/
 
you miss 100% of the shots you don't take

Ken

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