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Hey guys,
Here's one for you.
I wanted to do more approaches in my local area, lots of hot ladies wandering about. It's a good place to live! So, I've decided to make working from home more fun and do some daygame on my lunchbreak.
There is a small square where I like to eat my lunch and then smoke a cigarette, so went there today, and thought "well, who knows what might happen".
So, I was sitting eating my sandwich (cheese and ham, in case you're interested), finished. Rolled myself a cigarette and proceeded to light up and suck on that bad boy.
Saw a very nice looking women, brunette, maybe a little taller than me, well dressed, nice figure, nice hair, wearing sunglasses. She was just standing on the edge of the square, smoking a vape, looking about.
I'm 5ft 6, stocky I guess, beard, trimmed and neat, glasses (nice designer pair, a bit expensive tbh but hey ho), polo shirt, jeans (slim cut), black trainers (my clothes fit properly btw)
I thought she looked in my direction a few times, then started looking at her phone. I'd looked at her a few times, I think she noticed.
I wasn't entirely sure if she was pretty or not, as she had big sunglasses on. But I thought to myself "well, there's only one way to find out"
I had a sandwich packet to put in the bin, so I went over, smoking a cigarette, asked her "is there bin round here?" as I walked past.
What a line! (you can use that if you want)
She turned round to look to see (I knew there was bin nearby, I'm local)
Put my rubbish in the bin, turned round to her, nodded at her vape, and said:
"you like modern technology I see"
I gestured to my cigarette and said:
"I'm old school"
she laughed
Turns out she is a dental nurse from Lithuania, and very pretty to boot!
They seem to know what they're doing in Eastern Europe in whatever factory they make these girls.
I said "I don't think I've ever met anyone from Lithuania before"
I asked her about herself, about Lithuania, gave her a few titbits about myself.
She asked what I did for a job, and where I was from.
I told her I thought she looked very nice and would she like to go out for a drink sometime.
She asked me if I was free at the weekend.
I asked her to put her deets into my phone, and sent this:
"Hi Gerda, it's Andrew. Let's go for a drink sometime [smiley face] "
She laughed when she got the text - I didn't think it was that funny, but I'll not complain.
Then I said "well, I'll you a text later in the week about going out at the weekend. I've got to go and get bacl to work now" and off I went.
We talked for 5 minutes I guess, maybe a little longer.
Don't think I made much eye contact - she was wearing sunglasses and I was just standing beside her. I just wasn't a stand face to face set-up.
I was just like, well I'm going to stand here, pretty relaxed and talk to you.
I think being funny, being interested in her, and just being confident enough to go an approach her did the job.
Also, she was giving me the IOIs (as the kids call them), so I guess that made it easier.
I don't think I said anything sexual, but I was definitely giving off a confident, I'm just talking to you, I'm not bothered if you like me or not vibe.
Seemed to go okay. I could tell she liked me from the way she was looking at me. She had a kind of inquisitive look and a small smile on her face most of the time, and she laughed at all my mildly amusing remarks, and as I said, she asked me questions about myself, and asked if I was free Saturday after I asked if she's like to go for a drink sometime.
I'll text her later in the week about Saturday.
Almost forgot...
I shook her hand (gently) when I introduced myself.
That's important - physical contact!
And only one compliment - "I think you look very nice" before I asked her out.
About her - I guess she was 30 ish. Seemed pretty confident, very well put together, knows how to dress, stylish and professional - She was at a meeting beforehand, so looking good for work.
So far, I've noticed that the confident ones are much easier to talk to than then not so confident ones. Makes sense, they have better social skills themselves. And the older ones (like 30ish, steady on, lets not go too old) are more confident - again, makes sense.
I didn't try to qualify myself in any way, just went over and started talking to her, and was kind of aloof I guess. I was friendly, but I wasn't all 'oh I'm so lucky to be talking to you', I was just 'hey, I'm going to talk to you'.
Any thoughts?
Here's one for you.
I wanted to do more approaches in my local area, lots of hot ladies wandering about. It's a good place to live! So, I've decided to make working from home more fun and do some daygame on my lunchbreak.
There is a small square where I like to eat my lunch and then smoke a cigarette, so went there today, and thought "well, who knows what might happen".
So, I was sitting eating my sandwich (cheese and ham, in case you're interested), finished. Rolled myself a cigarette and proceeded to light up and suck on that bad boy.
Saw a very nice looking women, brunette, maybe a little taller than me, well dressed, nice figure, nice hair, wearing sunglasses. She was just standing on the edge of the square, smoking a vape, looking about.
I'm 5ft 6, stocky I guess, beard, trimmed and neat, glasses (nice designer pair, a bit expensive tbh but hey ho), polo shirt, jeans (slim cut), black trainers (my clothes fit properly btw)
I thought she looked in my direction a few times, then started looking at her phone. I'd looked at her a few times, I think she noticed.
I wasn't entirely sure if she was pretty or not, as she had big sunglasses on. But I thought to myself "well, there's only one way to find out"
I had a sandwich packet to put in the bin, so I went over, smoking a cigarette, asked her "is there bin round here?" as I walked past.
What a line! (you can use that if you want)
She turned round to look to see (I knew there was bin nearby, I'm local)
Put my rubbish in the bin, turned round to her, nodded at her vape, and said:
"you like modern technology I see"
I gestured to my cigarette and said:
"I'm old school"
she laughed
Turns out she is a dental nurse from Lithuania, and very pretty to boot!
They seem to know what they're doing in Eastern Europe in whatever factory they make these girls.
I said "I don't think I've ever met anyone from Lithuania before"
I asked her about herself, about Lithuania, gave her a few titbits about myself.
She asked what I did for a job, and where I was from.
I told her I thought she looked very nice and would she like to go out for a drink sometime.
She asked me if I was free at the weekend.
I asked her to put her deets into my phone, and sent this:
"Hi Gerda, it's Andrew. Let's go for a drink sometime [smiley face] "
She laughed when she got the text - I didn't think it was that funny, but I'll not complain.
Then I said "well, I'll you a text later in the week about going out at the weekend. I've got to go and get bacl to work now" and off I went.
We talked for 5 minutes I guess, maybe a little longer.
Don't think I made much eye contact - she was wearing sunglasses and I was just standing beside her. I just wasn't a stand face to face set-up.
I was just like, well I'm going to stand here, pretty relaxed and talk to you.
I think being funny, being interested in her, and just being confident enough to go an approach her did the job.
Also, she was giving me the IOIs (as the kids call them), so I guess that made it easier.
I don't think I said anything sexual, but I was definitely giving off a confident, I'm just talking to you, I'm not bothered if you like me or not vibe.
Seemed to go okay. I could tell she liked me from the way she was looking at me. She had a kind of inquisitive look and a small smile on her face most of the time, and she laughed at all my mildly amusing remarks, and as I said, she asked me questions about myself, and asked if I was free Saturday after I asked if she's like to go for a drink sometime.
I'll text her later in the week about Saturday.
Almost forgot...
I shook her hand (gently) when I introduced myself.
That's important - physical contact!
And only one compliment - "I think you look very nice" before I asked her out.
About her - I guess she was 30 ish. Seemed pretty confident, very well put together, knows how to dress, stylish and professional - She was at a meeting beforehand, so looking good for work.
So far, I've noticed that the confident ones are much easier to talk to than then not so confident ones. Makes sense, they have better social skills themselves. And the older ones (like 30ish, steady on, lets not go too old) are more confident - again, makes sense.
I didn't try to qualify myself in any way, just went over and started talking to her, and was kind of aloof I guess. I was friendly, but I wasn't all 'oh I'm so lucky to be talking to you', I was just 'hey, I'm going to talk to you'.
Any thoughts?
