Hi guys i have been reading posts on this forum for a long time but this is my first ever post here and i have one question for you.I met one girl at salsa class we have classes on Monday and Wednesday i met her last week Monday talked to her on last week Wednesday and this week Monday.And i can really see that she is into me.She giggles a lot when i say some corny jokes touches me a lot smiles every time she notices me, i can see that she really enjoys talking to me and etc.Today i had huge chance to ask for her phone number but somehow i didn't really talked to her i talked just a little . Now my question is do you think that i should ask her for phone number on next Monday when we have class and try to arrange date or something like that or that i should stop and move on.Do you think that after this stupidity that i did she will lose attraction till Monday.Anyway this situation happened to me a lot in the past so this is really a really long and sad story of mine.Cheers
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Hank said:
The best time to ask for a phone number or a date is after she's just giggled or smiles at you. Ask for the date first if she agrees then work out the details of the date and then ask her how you can contact her, she'll probably give you her number. If you don't get the date then don't make it seem like a big deal. Stay focused and socialize with other girls infront of her. Then try again next time with her.
You really need to read https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-get-phone-number-girl-every-time-you-ask and https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-ask-girl-out-and-always-get-yes
BTW what was the stupid thing you did? If you're talking about not moving quickly then don't beat yourself up about it. You shouldn't have been auto-rejected yet.
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On top of what Good Vibes already said; your aim is not to just ask for her number.
Your real intention is to ask her out for a date.
So start by saying "you know, we really get along with each other. What do you say we go get some lunch together sometime?"
If she is into like you said, she will reply positively, and then number swapping becomes natural at this point.
You then text her next time to arrange that date, as it is already to be expected.
Your real intention is to ask her out for a date.
So start by saying "you know, we really get along with each other. What do you say we go get some lunch together sometime?"
If she is into like you said, she will reply positively, and then number swapping becomes natural at this point.
You then text her next time to arrange that date, as it is already to be expected.
Thanks guys for answers i know i should have asked her for phone number yesterday at that salsa party i saw her near the bathroom and she started touching me i said something made her laugh than we split up and for the next 45 mins i didn't talked to her.Than i was "forced" to leave,so i left and nothing happened .After that i thought about it and said i really should have asked her for her number she is going to think that i am such a pu**y and than auto reject me .I just read these two post mentioned above and i will definitely try i was just a little "afraid" that she will lose attraction till Monday .Anyway I'll try.
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