Mah journal (bgwh)

[bgwh]

Went shopping... noticed a girl with an "ovulation" walk in the distance walking towards bus stop... so i'm like lemme go open... but as I start walking towards bus stop I see the girl I opened on the monday (and she was super excited).... So I'm like "oh no, monday girl will see me hitting on other girls here, i'll develop the reputation of being 'that guy', so I immedatelly reverse." Later I realized this was the wrong frame...

So I go to store I was going to go to anyway, hoping there aren't too many hotties... Unfortunately see a girl who's "almost hot", from behind, but walking fast... I'm like ok, let me take her over and throw a comment over shoulder or just glance and smile, or something like that. I rush to take her over, and it's ACTUALLLY the best friend of a girl I have a "situationship" with. Nevermind, greeted her warmly, then tried to eject, but she wouldn't go, she was lingering wanted to have an interaction with me. I literally had to chase her away... like I'm here to hit on girls I don't know, shoo, goo away. So she goes away.

Next I enter store. As I exit the store, a girl walks in with a TIGHT body. I actually verbally go "dayyyyumm, niiiiiice"... then I glance at her as she walks into store ignoring me, and I realize it's the girl I opened last week in this same store. So I exit store, and I know she will walk back home in same direction as me, kinda go slow, then like is she gonna catch up to me? Decide to walk back to store and meet her as she exits.

As she's walking towards me, she's holding her phone, talking real loud, being all bubbly and cute. And i'm like "[name] was it?"... She tells other person something and puts down phone and cracks most beatiful smile ever. I go "i saw you earlier entering the store and went WOW, then I realized it's you"...

The whole time we're looking into each other's eyes, and I don't even know how I got her hand... but I held onto it, and then started holding it more intimately... can't explain, but she was liking the intimacy

 

[bgwh]

I've been approaching, just naturally here and there as I go out for other things. Quality has improved quite a bit. But I'm coming here to write something that was a major milestone for me.

Went to the bank... and I started flirting with the bank teller (10 body, 6 face)... Then I told her about some stuff, events, things like that, showed her stuff on my personal IG... The sexual tension was through the roof. And she kept standing up and flashing her beatiful ass at me and showing it off.

It felt surreal, coz i'm like "Wait I'm becoming that guy". I didn't even know it's possible to flirt at the bank like that with everyone watching. Sexual tension was through the roof...

At the end she pulled out her phone, and handed it to me like to show me "is this the page you were showing me"... and I totally didn't get it at the moment that this mean closing time. Like she was giving me an excuse to input my stuff in there or follow here. She was literally looking at me confused, like she was confused why I'm not closing.

But man do I regret it, absolute perfection 10/10 fitness model body... she even bragged how much she works out. Dammit!

 

[bgwh]

So after a huge break from active approaching sessions (autumn last year?) I am resuming today. Went out and easily did quite a bunch.

Two things to note:

1) I am a firm believer in not getting into your comfort zone. The benefits from cold approaches I did last year spoiled me and made me comfortable. I'm still reaping ebenfits from those approaches back then. This is because I'm not doing traditional pickup. I funnel cold approach leads into a social circle type system.

2) I knew approaches would be relatively easy for me and they always go well. So I decided I must focus on hellos. This is the part that I have anxiety about. I don't have approach anxiety, but I have hello anxiety. So that's what I must focus on.

Out of 7 hellos, 2 responded. they also happened to be the two hottest one. These are girls where I was like omfg damn she's so hot omg omg.

The other 5 were either mid or ugly. Now I can't tell if they get weirded out because I'm doing something different (I'm literally thinking, hmm she's not hot) as I say it. Or maybe it's because not hot girls are insecure. But they all made this kind of weirded out face, like why are you talking to me.

The hotties beamed in delight with an ear to ear grin. I believe this was my experience in previous hello saying experiments.


Overall something like 8-10 hellos and 5-10 approaches. Including an international fashion model. She was so offended that I didn't know who she was. Oh and that I dropped her when a hotter chick walked by. I was like excuse me I have to go talk talk to her. It was actually a re-approach of a girl I had approached many months before (my personal 10). So I number closed her, as we hugged and we talked enthusiastically about some things well do.

Go back to fashion model, she's annoyed and no longer wanted to talk. Asked for ig... Forgot what name she told me...

So about an hour later I go to to some business networking in a cafe. She's there. After getting done with the cafe owners I walk up to her like sorry forgot your name. She looked so annoyed and akward with me. I didn't care.

3 hours later I get notification she added me on ig.

Anyhow, I was surprised that not only did I not lose anything with this huge break, I have zero AA and my swag is way higher than it was before. I'm literally looking at myself and thinking who's this guy and why does he act like he has orgies daily.

 

[JT Sunshine]

Welcome back brother! Good to see you’re coming out swinging right out of the gates

 

[OldGuy]

When Clinton was President, I remember some of the older, dowdy women who worked with him and Monica, found him creepy since he would flirt with them.

 

[bgwh]

When Clinton was President, I remember some of the older, dowdy women who worked with him and Monica, found him creepy since he would flirt with them.

Is this in reference to the discussion about how uglier women get weirded out when you say hello?

 

[bgwh]

I've been too lazy to journal. But basically since then I had two outtings, one yesterday, and one today. I will probably edit this post to add in the details when I get around to it.

- Yesterday was just hellos, and there might have been an approach... man it's a blur
- Today I had 2 really productive approaches (aside from the hellos and one that genuinelly was in a rush and couldn't talk). I got myself to start kinoing, something I haven't done in these approaches until now... I was doing upperarm taps and shoulder taps as we speak. Both of them were quite comfortable with it.

Social circle game spoiled me, so my main issue is motivation, since every approach has 100x the roi of traditional "pickup". Like one approach turns into an entire circle of girls (her friends) that become leads, as opposed to traditional pickup where you burn it to the ground (either you fuck her, or get nothing out of the approach).

Back to the two approaches. They were both comfortable with me standing very close, in fact the first one was fuck-buddy distance, and as I was talking about her style, she started showing me her pants and how they fit her, she literally threw in a sneak for me into her panties. To be fair I think that's why I approached her. She had that "ovulation walk", if you know what I mean. Added on IG of course, we will meet up for some networking stuff later, turned out she knows some of the people in my industry.

Then approached a second one. Noticed she looks like a model, asked her if she has experience in this kind of stuff. She said yes, but didn't mention anything (she's actually quite famous it turns out), but later as I came back home I see her profile, and she's fucking miss universe (held title few years back). Hundreds of thousands of followers. Anyway, she also owns a business, so I shot her message about a business collab as our businesses are compatible and we can send each other clients. So from this approach I can get plenty of PROFIT, plus access to her entire network of celebs and models.

This is kind of the issue with social circle game, the back-end roi is so much higher, it makes you lazy. I'm still reaping benefits from cold appoaches I did last summer before I got lazy and took a 9 month break from approaching.

*Both of them were really comfortable standing in fuckbuddy distance to me, both started beaming in delight at the kino. And in both cases THEY closed me. Like they pulled out the phone, and asked for my IG.