So I started seeing this girl just over a week ago, met her on tinder and on the first date she ended up back at mine where we had sex for pretty much 2 days straight. Thing is she is married and although she has told him it's over he's still living in the house (they have kids so it could get messy). Anyway I've seen her a couple of times since and we have crazy sex so I thought, cool, friends with benefits. Then the other night she texts me when I'm in a club and does the whole 'have you pulled anyone yet?' trying to gauge if I was out on the pull, I just txt back 'why, do you fancy a threesome?', to which she replied 'depends what you've pulled'. I left it at that and messaged her the next day to sort out when we were meeting today, again she asked how my night was but I avoided the question. So today I meet up and again she brings up the night out and I tell her the truth, I met some friends had a couple of drinks and came home, then she starts asking about tinder and if I'm dating anyone else, again I told her the truth, I'm chatting to some girls but haven't got any dates lined up, I ask her if it would bother her if I dated anyone else and she says 'yes', then she asked me the same question and I said 'yes it probably would'. Well now I feel like I've lost the whole FWB frame and don't get me wrong, if she didn't live with her (supposedly) ex husband I'd be more than happy to move into a boyfriend frame but now I feel like she's trying to get the best of both worlds, husband and kids at home, sexy lover on the side (me). Although she seems sweet and innocent she's an ex stripper and having dated strippers before I know how manipulative they can be, when it comes to strippers I generally lose!. What do I do to regain control?.
