Was similar to another post but somewhat different so I figured I'd make a new topic.
Right so, we met/slept together over the summer when she was on vacation where I lived, and after that she went back home to another continent. I was one of her first "real" sexual experiences (according to her men before had sucked....not complaining there...thanks for the orgasm advice haha). We've kept in touch every couple weeks since then.
This upcoming summer, I will be spending some time where she lives (a work location coincidence) and we've made general plans to hang out then. Obviously we're both involved with other people in between, and there's an interesting tension in that we're gonna hang out but nothing sexual has been explicitly said at all.
Sure, of course we're gonna just hang out as friends.....I see through it, and I expect to have a fun summer if everything goes well.
To maintain this connection, is any occasional texting needed/messaging? Every couple weeks or so she will start a conversation with me, it's been about 30% me, 70% her, which is good. Sometimes she texts when drunk and it's cute. I've tried to be unpredictable in that I sometimes respond immediately, to a couple hrs, to straight up never responding.
My question is whether I should cool off, heat up, or just stay the same, I guess. It would be nice to have a starting point with women when I move to an unfamiliar location this summer. My general concern is that summer is far away, and the fun/exciting aspect might decline if there's consistent communication.
In the meantime, I will be enjoying the women around me here
Edit: meant to post in phone calls/texting, my bad.
Right so, we met/slept together over the summer when she was on vacation where I lived, and after that she went back home to another continent. I was one of her first "real" sexual experiences (according to her men before had sucked....not complaining there...thanks for the orgasm advice haha). We've kept in touch every couple weeks since then.
This upcoming summer, I will be spending some time where she lives (a work location coincidence) and we've made general plans to hang out then. Obviously we're both involved with other people in between, and there's an interesting tension in that we're gonna hang out but nothing sexual has been explicitly said at all.
Sure, of course we're gonna just hang out as friends.....I see through it, and I expect to have a fun summer if everything goes well.
To maintain this connection, is any occasional texting needed/messaging? Every couple weeks or so she will start a conversation with me, it's been about 30% me, 70% her, which is good. Sometimes she texts when drunk and it's cute. I've tried to be unpredictable in that I sometimes respond immediately, to a couple hrs, to straight up never responding.
My question is whether I should cool off, heat up, or just stay the same, I guess. It would be nice to have a starting point with women when I move to an unfamiliar location this summer. My general concern is that summer is far away, and the fun/exciting aspect might decline if there's consistent communication.
In the meantime, I will be enjoying the women around me here
Edit: meant to post in phone calls/texting, my bad.
