Maintaining scarcity if texting is the only option

[Ithilien770]

Hey everyone ~

I have this situation with a girl and am looking for some advice on how to proceed as its kinda a new situation for me.

If the girl in question lives far away (but is soon to be travelling to my area and as she is attractive I want to try to swing something with her when she comes) and your only real contact is via text, would the correct action be to:

1. Keep the messaging to a minimum so as to maintain scarcity - that is, never initiate, tell her I am too busy with something interesting in life at times and will contact her when I am free/other times give her playful communication - therefore be intriguing but never a friend in the sense of someone who is just going to drop whatever he is doing simply to chat with her and simply be highly scarce

2. Be highly active on social media being seen to be doing adventurous things/pursuing my dreams actively/being seen with other young and beautiful women/travelling/living life - therefore being a scarce yet highly interesting guy she may wonder about

3. When I see her in person, ask her out and take her to bed

She's not the only girl in my sights ~ I'm just curious to learn about how to best approach this specific situation and want to give it a shot to see what I can learn/see if I can achieve a night in bed with her

Cheers for any replies - Ithilien770

 

[Smurf]

Yo!

Are you guaranteed to see her in person? If you are I wouldn't text her at all. If not, text her to meet up and go from there.

I don't use text as a conversation board anymore. I use it to get people to meet with me in person. This isn't just be regurgitating a Chase concept, I've tested this and it's more effective across the board, not just with girls but anyone really. Text just isn't an effective conversation tool for me anymore.

Jake.

 

[Fuck This]

I'd create a text date where you get her to agree to a pre determined time that you are "available" have your conversation then you "gotta go". Limit it to 15 minutes or so.

what works better is Facetime/skype or phone for conveying emotion and tone. always have a hard deadline for ending it, and leave her on a high note