Making Excuses or Content?

[JimmyB]

I have a good long-distance type deal where I see the girl for parts of the year. We've slept together several times. She's coming to visit me in a month or so. I'm very attracted to her. The time that we're not in the same place, we don't stay in constant contact. Maybe once every few weeks one of us sends a message. I look forward to us meeting up and honestly don't care too much for hooking up with other girls. It's not that I wouldn't if the opportunity arises. I have. But I don't go out of my way to find girls to hook up with. It's not that I'm committed to this girl, she's just far more attractive than just about any girls I see. Am I ok with just focusing on this one girl, or should I put an effort to spread out and find others? It's not that I couldn't find a girl as attractive, It's just very unlikely and I don't care to. I'm wondering if this can be bad for relationship dynamics? Or is this normal when you find a girl you're really attracted to and get along with?
Thanks,
JB

 

[Marcellus]

JimmyB

It's not that I couldn't find a girl as attractive, It's just very unlikely and I don't care to.
JB

Why can't you get a girl that's just as attractive as the one you have now, why is it very unlikely?

 

[JimmyB]

Maybe just for now, I mean. I'm moving to a city in a while and that will change things. I'm just not around a lot of girls my age. At some point, sure. It's just not going to be a weekly or even monthly occurence.