Managing Club Logistics

[Waterboii]

Hopefully you gurus could give me a few tips/strategies for managing the girls you meet in a small to medium sized venue (or point out existing advice). More specifically, after you've met a girl, were unable to move or escalate her that night and grabbed her number how do you respond to seeing her once or more times again during the night. Would a quick comment or wink suffice? Furthermore, how do girls respond to seeing you hitting on (sometimes successfully, others not) other women?
Much appreciated!
WB

 

[Tyme2k]

I take it you've read https://www.girlschase.com/content/how-p ... -and-clubs

If not read it, I did before I started club game.

There are a couple things I do when I run club game:

Get to know the staff. These people are the ones that will help you immensely when running game in the club, especially when solo. Ping off them to get into groove or maintain while in it.

BE FUN! Girls go out why? TO HAVE FUN, subconsciously though they just want to get fucked. The sooner you know this the better and utilize this knowledge in field to remind yourself, she is here to get fucked, are you going to let her down? Hope not or that drunk douche over there dancing like an idiot is gonna take care of her needs.

Don't get caught up on one girl, most of the time I've failed it was because of this. Don't care if she sees you talking to other women, this only raises her attraction. If she mentions you getting shot down, say something like oh shes always like that and move on. Or something simple like "I know funny right" RETHREAD bam that easy. But this hypothetical situation is what they call a shit test. Very easy to beat shit tests my friend, stay solid, don't flinch, own it, and move on.

There is so much to learn on club game.. Good luck bro

 

[Waterboii]

Tyme2k,

Thanks man, I appreciate the response! In fact, I hadn't read it and it really cleared up a lot of things I had questions about.

The staff tip is a good one, sometimes its tough to maintain momentum after a shit interaction or at the start of the night.

Yeah, that is a big sticking point I've hit ... I often find myself staying with a girl too long, mostly because I'm comfortable, even though I know it wont yield as much as another potentially will. The 2 venue plan Chase laid out makes tons of sense as well, as it deals a lot with the problem of getting trapped and not moving.

Much love,
WB

 

[Estate]

This situation is where experience counts.

Look for the women looking for you. If you do a scattershot approach to every girl in a small venue then lets be honest... you're pretty quickly labelled as "that guy...".
Don't be "that guy". Guys in game seem to think they can overcome this because of their magic super powers of pickup but really... how? You are just that dude who's creeping on every girl in the place in full view of every other girl.

Now the opposite way if you WANT to do this is STOP approaching. Or at least, stop going direct and stop using VERY "pickupy" openers. You just have to be the super social guy who seems to know everyone. When you do "approach" someone, it's not that long walk across the bar, it's a casual opening to the girl next to you, or just grabbing a girl nearby into your already on going conversations.

When you do this, people start to see you as a cool social guy but don't see many approaches, they'll almost assume you know everyone there. If you can do this for a while, later in the night, it'll be easier to pick a girl and start moving forward, she'll already be warm to you.

 

[Waterboii]

Estate,

Okay, I see where you are coming from. Law of least effort. You're right, there is a big difference between very try-hard and effortless looking approaches, especially in the minds of other women. I'll think more about where I'm placing myself in the club as to have the greatest access with least movement and getting myself social early and often (Tyme2k's comment on getting to know the staff relates here) so that my approaches seem like a natural extension.

Thank you both for the input!

WB