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I'm going to write this report up a bit differently than the typical "fun dynamic story" since I'm pressed for time and on 2 hour of sleep.
This one is a little less exciting or fun to read than my typical LR but there's one transition point in here that I think a lot of guys could get something out of that struggle with transitioning with the pull (like I used to).
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Last night a couple buddies of mine went out to the House of Blues since we heard the Scene on Sunday there is better than most clubs in town on a Saturday night.
Damn were they right! This venue was sick! Big but not too big to where you'd get lost or separated from your friends forever. It was two stories with an outdoor balcony for more intimate conversing, plus an outdoor ground level section with an entirely different DJ.
I was tired as shit last night (on low sleep for past 2 days and working 12 hours + each day) but I pushed myself to get some momentum built up and start having fun in my interactions.
Had a killer fun night, making out with girls, saying obnoxious funny shit, and even got slapped in the face by a girl.
I had a few interactions that appeared to be going somewhere but with logistics and intervening friends (and a few interactions that started off great but fizzled out quickly) nothing lined up to take any girl home.
As a side note logistics were extremely important here because we took a 20 minute drive from my buddy's house downtown to get to this venue, and on top of that for me to get back to my house was another 20 minutes if I decided to not to stay at my buddy's (who has zero furniture in his house except for his bed).
I wouldn't have thought logically what happened last night would've happened so flawlessly but it did
Approach
The last 30 minutes of the night we went out and did some street game chatting up girls leaving the venue.
I'm about exhausted but I decide to go approach one more girl.
It's a group of Italian girls and she was wearing a black skirt, black boots, a trendy red sweater, and a leather vest to go over it. She has sexy tan legs on display that I like quite a lot.
I wish I could remember the conversation but honestly I was soo tired I can't really recall at all how it started. I think I opened situationally and I remember soon afterwards telling her that I have a leather fetish (referring to her leather vest) and that I'm either going to take her vest and if she doesn't want to part with it she would have to come with me.
(Funny enough the last girl I layed had a leather jacket on that I made a similar comment too... I guess threat of seizure of a favorite articles of clothing is the new technique to get girls home lol
She thought this was funny. I then told her to feel my boobs (an actual tactic I've been playing around with recently to get the girl to initiate or become comfortable with getting physical) in which she put her hand on my chest and squeezed playfully. I asked her if she thought they were real, and she said she liked them.
We traded names and I decided to move her right here away from her friends circle in an effort to get her investing in me.
Moving her
The reason I wanted to move her right away was to basically screen her out and see if she was actually interested or just wanting to flirt.
I told her we'll go on a quick romantic walk under the stars. She gave some resistance (didn't want to leave the friends), in which I told her we'll only go two minutes and if she doesn't enjoy it she can come right back. She agreed and went to tell her friends what she was doing. I then calmly waved very friendly and said "hey we're just going to go for two minutes I'll have her right back in no time to you" just to make sure the friends were going to get overprotective and tell her no.
The way I've been having luck handling friends is to address whoever the main girl of the group (not the whole entire group as that is tryhard and makes it look like you're trying to sell yourself to everyone) is in a charming and calm manner to let her know that I'm going to talk to their friend privately for a minute or two. Also I mention that I'll have them back in one piece, or some other reassuring statement that takes consideration of their worries.
A lot of times if you say it like it's not a big deal and as if she already said yes (assuming she's not in overprotective bitch mode) then the friend will typically give permission for the girl to go with you without repercussion.
We walk about 50 yards away and converse in small talk for about 5 minutes and I'm trying to figure out what the best game plan is.
I'm thinking try and pull her and her friends to an afterparty or for food.
Before I really have time to ask, her friends come and are leaving towards their car so we all start walking together. I motion for her to lace her arm through mine and we walk.
I inquire and tell the friends that we should all go to an afterparty, as there is a cool one going on not too far away from here.
They seem eager enough at first and I'm bringing a little more energy to the group to get them in more of a spontaneous "fun" mode. I offer the idea out one more time and don't really get a straight forward answer so I tell my girl to invite 2 of her friends back to an afterparty (all we have room for). They seem receptive to the idea but eventually decline for whatever reason. I don't press the issue any further but instead work to get my girl back with me.
I tell her to tell her friends she's coming with me. They speak Italian to one another and giggle, and I see the main girl give a affirming nod, yet look at me a bit skeptical like "are you the real deal you present yourself as?" I look at her and tell her just like I did when I moved her originally that she's in good hands and I'll have her back in one piece no problemo.
She reluctantly nods, smiles, and bids my girl and I farewell.
Major Transistion
This was by far the hardest part of the whole seduction and really what I want to highlight this part as I've become decently adept at handling this.
Transitions are very important because it's the part in seduction where she's making the final commitment to the two of you and if you at any point become incongruent to the way you were acting prior (i.e. you get weird/nervous when you were previously fun and confident) she's going to get a bit freaked and will not trust you to take her home.
I've struggled on transitions in the past but this one had a twist for the fact that I also have 2 other guys she's never met that she's going to be riding with as well (for all she knows we may be going to run a train on her).
I was a bit anxious in the back of my mind but I knew that all I had to do was make the transition seem normal, natural, and not a big deal and things should pull through. So I casually introduced my friends and we walked casually behind them just talking and deep diving one another.
Next was the 20 minute car ride downtown. I knew once we get to the car that all I had to do was not fuck up, get weird, or run out of things to say and everything would be fine. But I also knew that if I did get weird it would be hella awkward to recover and pull things through. This was in the back of my mind.
We made it too the car and I was basically just having basic conversation with some added playfulness for added comfort and fun.
We talk the whole ride back in the car and it never got awkward at all. I created a little bubble of "us" in the back seat and she totally forgot we were with anyone else for the most part.
We finally make the 20 minute ride and get back to my buddys house which is incredibly awkward once we get inside. 3 dudes and a girl, house has no furniture whatsoever, she's a bit on edge and so am I as I'm not comfortable there.
At this point in the game the options are to either pull her into a bathroom and fuck her or make another 20 minute drive to my house.
I lack confidence of pulling her into the bathroom to fuck her so I opt for the latter.
We bid my friends farewell and make the drive home which feels excruciatingly long but she doesn't seem to mind to much which is good.
She qualifies herself by saying that she can ride in cars for hours no problem.
We roll up to my place and I carry her inside because I feel like it.
I lead her to my room, light a candle, turn some music on, pull her into me, and the rest is history.
Welcome to Bangtown USA baby
-Rob
This one is a little less exciting or fun to read than my typical LR but there's one transition point in here that I think a lot of guys could get something out of that struggle with transitioning with the pull (like I used to).
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Last night a couple buddies of mine went out to the House of Blues since we heard the Scene on Sunday there is better than most clubs in town on a Saturday night.
Damn were they right! This venue was sick! Big but not too big to where you'd get lost or separated from your friends forever. It was two stories with an outdoor balcony for more intimate conversing, plus an outdoor ground level section with an entirely different DJ.
I was tired as shit last night (on low sleep for past 2 days and working 12 hours + each day) but I pushed myself to get some momentum built up and start having fun in my interactions.
Had a killer fun night, making out with girls, saying obnoxious funny shit, and even got slapped in the face by a girl.
I had a few interactions that appeared to be going somewhere but with logistics and intervening friends (and a few interactions that started off great but fizzled out quickly) nothing lined up to take any girl home.
As a side note logistics were extremely important here because we took a 20 minute drive from my buddy's house downtown to get to this venue, and on top of that for me to get back to my house was another 20 minutes if I decided to not to stay at my buddy's (who has zero furniture in his house except for his bed).
I wouldn't have thought logically what happened last night would've happened so flawlessly but it did
Approach
The last 30 minutes of the night we went out and did some street game chatting up girls leaving the venue.
I'm about exhausted but I decide to go approach one more girl.
It's a group of Italian girls and she was wearing a black skirt, black boots, a trendy red sweater, and a leather vest to go over it. She has sexy tan legs on display that I like quite a lot.
I wish I could remember the conversation but honestly I was soo tired I can't really recall at all how it started. I think I opened situationally and I remember soon afterwards telling her that I have a leather fetish (referring to her leather vest) and that I'm either going to take her vest and if she doesn't want to part with it she would have to come with me.
(Funny enough the last girl I layed had a leather jacket on that I made a similar comment too... I guess threat of seizure of a favorite articles of clothing is the new technique to get girls home lol
She thought this was funny. I then told her to feel my boobs (an actual tactic I've been playing around with recently to get the girl to initiate or become comfortable with getting physical) in which she put her hand on my chest and squeezed playfully. I asked her if she thought they were real, and she said she liked them.
We traded names and I decided to move her right here away from her friends circle in an effort to get her investing in me.
Moving her
The reason I wanted to move her right away was to basically screen her out and see if she was actually interested or just wanting to flirt.
I told her we'll go on a quick romantic walk under the stars. She gave some resistance (didn't want to leave the friends), in which I told her we'll only go two minutes and if she doesn't enjoy it she can come right back. She agreed and went to tell her friends what she was doing. I then calmly waved very friendly and said "hey we're just going to go for two minutes I'll have her right back in no time to you
" just to make sure the friends were going to get overprotective and tell her no.The way I've been having luck handling friends is to address whoever the main girl of the group (not the whole entire group as that is tryhard and makes it look like you're trying to sell yourself to everyone) is in a charming and calm manner to let her know that I'm going to talk to their friend privately for a minute or two. Also I mention that I'll have them back in one piece, or some other reassuring statement that takes consideration of their worries.
A lot of times if you say it like it's not a big deal and as if she already said yes (assuming she's not in overprotective bitch mode) then the friend will typically give permission for the girl to go with you without repercussion.
We walk about 50 yards away and converse in small talk for about 5 minutes and I'm trying to figure out what the best game plan is.
I'm thinking try and pull her and her friends to an afterparty or for food.
Before I really have time to ask, her friends come and are leaving towards their car so we all start walking together. I motion for her to lace her arm through mine and we walk.
I inquire and tell the friends that we should all go to an afterparty, as there is a cool one going on not too far away from here.
They seem eager enough at first and I'm bringing a little more energy to the group to get them in more of a spontaneous "fun" mode. I offer the idea out one more time and don't really get a straight forward answer so I tell my girl to invite 2 of her friends back to an afterparty (all we have room for). They seem receptive to the idea but eventually decline for whatever reason. I don't press the issue any further but instead work to get my girl back with me.
I tell her to tell her friends she's coming with me. They speak Italian to one another and giggle, and I see the main girl give a affirming nod, yet look at me a bit skeptical like "are you the real deal you present yourself as?" I look at her and tell her just like I did when I moved her originally that she's in good hands and I'll have her back in one piece no problemo.
She reluctantly nods, smiles, and bids my girl and I farewell.
Major Transistion
This was by far the hardest part of the whole seduction and really what I want to highlight this part as I've become decently adept at handling this.
Transitions are very important because it's the part in seduction where she's making the final commitment to the two of you and if you at any point become incongruent to the way you were acting prior (i.e. you get weird/nervous when you were previously fun and confident) she's going to get a bit freaked and will not trust you to take her home.
I've struggled on transitions in the past but this one had a twist for the fact that I also have 2 other guys she's never met that she's going to be riding with as well (for all she knows we may be going to run a train on her).
I was a bit anxious in the back of my mind but I knew that all I had to do was make the transition seem normal, natural, and not a big deal and things should pull through. So I casually introduced my friends and we walked casually behind them just talking and deep diving one another.
Next was the 20 minute car ride downtown. I knew once we get to the car that all I had to do was not fuck up, get weird, or run out of things to say and everything would be fine. But I also knew that if I did get weird it would be hella awkward to recover and pull things through. This was in the back of my mind.
We made it too the car and I was basically just having basic conversation with some added playfulness for added comfort and fun.
We talk the whole ride back in the car and it never got awkward at all. I created a little bubble of "us" in the back seat and she totally forgot we were with anyone else for the most part.
We finally make the 20 minute ride and get back to my buddys house which is incredibly awkward once we get inside. 3 dudes and a girl, house has no furniture whatsoever, she's a bit on edge and so am I as I'm not comfortable there.
At this point in the game the options are to either pull her into a bathroom and fuck her or make another 20 minute drive to my house.
I lack confidence of pulling her into the bathroom to fuck her so I opt for the latter.
We bid my friends farewell and make the drive home which feels excruciatingly long but she doesn't seem to mind to much which is good.
She qualifies herself by saying that she can ride in cars for hours no problem.
We roll up to my place and I carry her inside because I feel like it.
I lead her to my room, light a candle, turn some music on, pull her into me, and the rest is history.
Welcome to Bangtown USA baby
-Rob
