Married Brazillian!!! Need help ASAP

[CookMasterChef]

Hey you guys, So I have been talking to the Brazilian chick from my latest FR and she was texting me sparingly. Only in the middle of the day, never at night or in the morning so I had my assumptions but assumed nothing. We even had another interaction in the gym where she approached me and we had a great interaction with a good positive vibe. However, I was recently texting her and she told me that she was married. So I guess my question is if I should still pursue or not? Don't get me wrong I defenitly would like to keep going for this because she is pretty sexy. So you guys have a complete understanding the text convo will be bellow.

M:Hey MB!! Wyd?
MB: Hey
M: Hows the home renovation going
MB: Slowly but Surely
M: Haha you'll get there. You think it'll take the whole weekend or are you gonna do something fun?
(No response... 2 days later)
M: Wyd?
MB: Hi Chef
How are you?
I have been so busy
M:Its cool. I've been pretty busy myself. I'm doing ok good for the most part. How's things going your way?
(No response... 2 days later)
M: Hey, do you have time in your busy schedule to talk later?
MB: Sorry I have been so busy
But the reason I cant talk to much with you is bc I am married
M: Ok thats cool. Didn't expect that (even though I did)
MB: Sorry
And I am already 34 years old
I guess you are 24!! ( actually 21 but 24 sounds better)
M: Hey age aint nothing but a number. Your beautiful and that's why I came to talk to you
MB:That's so sweetof you!! Thank you
Hey I'll text you tomorrow my husband is here and he is pretty protective/jealous of me:/
Don't text back

So again my question to the board is if I should pursue her or not. She never really told me to stop approaching or talking to her. Also she said she would continue texting me. I really just want to know how I should go about getting her. I only have a couple weeks before I head back to school, so I would like to hook up with her before then if possible. Should I just go in strong next time I see her or just stay chill and wait for her to come to me? All answers are helpful thanks.

 

[Fuck This]

Well she is texting you because she wants your attention. Attention she is not getting from her husband.
It is up to you to determine if you are going to let her use you for a texting buddy, or have an affair, or cut it off and have no contact.

If you decide to pursue I think you have to make it clear that you aren't gonna be a eunuch admirer who gives her compliments to prop up her self esteem.

As an outside observer, with no skin in the game, I think it is easy for me to push the envelop since I have nothing invested.

"Well I'm not in the habit of making married men jealous. Unless it is worth my while."

"I talked to you because I thought you were incredibly sexy.
If you want to have a passionate experience, I'm up for it.
I'm not going to nibble the crumbs around the edges with texts and flirting.
So either: lets meet and see where this goes, or we can shelve it until the time is right."

If she blows you off, so much the better. Nothing worse than a jealous husband who wants to kick your ass when you haven't done anything worth risking an ass kicking for....
..you are calling her bluff and if she plays her hand, be ready for a fricking roller coaster of highs and lows. If it is worth it, or you have the emotional bank to back it...go ALL IN.

 

[CookMasterChef]

Hey Two Rocky,

Thanks for the advice I think I will push the envelope and see where it gets me.

If she blows you off, so much the better. Nothing worse than a jealous husband who wants to kick your ass when you haven't done anything worth risking an ass kicking for....
..you are calling her bluff and if she plays her hand, be ready for a fricking roller coaster of highs and lows. If it is worth it, or you have the emotional bank to back it...go ALL IN.

Your exactly right... no risk no gain. I do not want to deal with having a platonic relationship either. So I must pursue and see what happens.

Thanks again