Married chicks. . .

[Thedoctor]

Hey Girls Chase aficionados,

I was wondering if anyone has had any experience in the "married chicks with kids" department. I am a very discreet guy and I'm non-judgmental in that I'm sure she has her reasons for wanting to bed someone other than her husband. Maybe he's already cheated on her, maybe she's unhappy and just staying there for the kids etc... My question is not about the moral standpoint. I am just wondering if anyone has ever been forced to deal with any obvious consequences:

-The husband finds out
-She decides to leave her husband; i become a home-wrecker
-She starts having feelings for two guys and so forth

I definitely don't want anything to happen, other than showing this woman a good time. Can anyone share their similar experiences and what happened afterward?

Help is much appreciated!

-Doc

 

[Estate]

Probably not what you're looking to hear but my best advice is to find a girl without baggage. This really can't end well however it goes.
If guys are into this then each to their own but I think avoiding any drama and meeting quality women without the baggage or issues will make you much happier.

 

[PinotNoir]

My limited experience with this was online only.

I think priority #1 is: find out if they're separated. This is pretty much the most important thing which will decide how difficult it will be and what tactics used.

Just use the old faithful, "Does your husband mind you flirting with me like this? " If she's separated, proceed. If she's married, then I suggest going with Estate, else, I have no real experience with this. (Morally, I just can't do it.)

So the girl I was talking with online turned out to be separated but still staying with her husband and kids. The next step for me was to find out her level of sexuality. This is pretty easy with sexual frames. I think you'll find that most women like this are wanting a new long-term relationship (especially if she's been separated for years), but if they separated fairly recently (like 1 year) or she's just more sexual in general, then you're golden. Then from there, just run it like normal. I tend to avoid talking about her kids (I don't even ask her about her kids), as it's just not sexual enough and not progressing in the direction I want. However, I find that talking about her ex-husband is fine though, as long as you portray yourself as the contrast.

Anyway, end of the story, she was Thai and lived in Germany, and we had online sex with cam. (I don't do online sex anymore.) If we lived closer, I'm sure we would have had sex.

This may not be the experience/advice that you were wanting, but just sharing my 2 cents.

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[Thedoctor]

Probably not what you're looking to hear but my best advice is to find a girl without baggage. This really can't end well however it goes.
If guys are into this then each to their own but I think avoiding any drama and meeting quality women without the baggage or issues will make you much happier.

I see your point, but find me any person, not just women, that comes without baggage.