Hey guys,
Last night went out to some bars with my buddy--hes a super tall black dude who does really well for himself game-wise--Ill call him BigC. We go to the first bar and I immediately see 3 girls sitting at a table. BigC and I go to the bathroom and when we get back I immediately open them up, we sit down, and they're super into us.
BigC has a very genuine style of game since he's like 6"6' and has never really needed to try to get girls--they just come to him. So we're all talking and im playing the quiet/kind of asshole guy and letting him tell the girls about us (we're both in medical school).
The girls are qualifying themselves to us, getting super excited and girly. Two of them are pretty cute (one of which who Ill call Taylor) and the third is actually significantly hotter--Ill call her Claire. Claire was more confident and was throwing some shit tests at me but they were pretty simple to pass.
I decided we should all move and play darts. At this point I didnt know who I was going for--we were kind of all taking turns talking one-on-one and feeling out the connections.
We are playing darts and I start flirting pretty hard with Taylor. We hold hands sometimes and I also pick her up to show her how strong I am
I finish my drink so move Taylor to the bar where we're isolated. She actually finished her drink but I didnt offer to buy her one. I give her my card and tell her to order my drink for my and sign my receipt. This is just to get compliance.
She does something strange and takes the liberty of asking the bartender for a drink of her own. I could've checked Taylor and told her Im not buying a drink for her, but they were cheap and I didnt think this would really help the interaction--I didnt want to decrease my attainability too much as she was clearly really into me.
We make out for a bit at the bar and there's absolutely no resistance on her part At this point we're about 30 min in (its like 10pm) and I figure if Im gonna show Taylor that I have some balls then I should try to pull her home now.
I tell her we should go to her place now and she giggles and acts girly but gives token objections that her friends are here and she can't leave them. I mess up and fail to push hard enough/just decide for both of us that we're leaving now. Period.
That would've been the mindset to get a LR--literally get both of our feet moving towards the door. I failed to do this though. However, this ask for the pull had a positive effect because she knew that I wasn't a pussy and could actually pull her at the end of the night if need be.
At this point things start to get a little hazy because BigC keeps on handing me drinks and some more of our buddies come so its a big jolly group now.
Claire (the hotter one of the group) actually starts to get frustrated that none of my friends are hitting on her. I try to hint to some of them to make a move on her, but they're being very aloof and their attainability is too low since they're all like 6"6' and have girls hitting on them.
Interesting Part!
Claire comes to me and Taylor to express her frustration and suggests that we just have a threesome. I get a little anxious but of course I would want to. I realize that this would require me flirting with Claire, so I turn to her and start touching her a bit. I dont really know how to move this forward though so it fizzles out... anyone know what to do in this situation?
I feel like the answer is clearly to flirt and set up some sort of chase frame since I am the one in scarcity and she literally just asked to have sex with us. How much of attention should I devote to Claire at this point? I dont want Taylor to get jealous of us. Also, I need to set a new frame that its the 3 of us now--how do I do this?
We're all dancing and Im making out with Taylor, but Claire actually gets super frustrated and decides to leave. So its me and Taylor and then BigC and the third girl from before.
Im pretty lit at this point so I start to seed the idea of us going home together. I repetitively tell her "Im not having sex with you tonight!" In retrospect I probably said this too many times and made my intentions too obvious.
Taylor starts to tell me that she's going home soon, but that "we are definitely going home separately". I dont take this as a rejection, just that we cant let anyone else know that we're going home together.
At some point we leave the club together but I notice a mood change in Taylor. She doesn't seem excited or girly, but is perseverating on us not sleeping together tonight.
The subway ride to her place takes a while so I feel like the excitement dies down and we're just two drunk idiots on a subway, lol. I walk her to her apartment and say I need to use her bathroom (I really did).
I go inside, take my shoes off, take a piss, and then come out. She's clearly not giving me a tour and wants me to leave. I instead ask her for a glass of water, but she still wants me to leave. I dont try to escalate cuz her mood is changed and she's not feeling it anymore.
I feel like this was probably due to Claire getting pissed, me not making the initial pull earlier in the night, and just the excitement dying down.
In the future I just gotta commit fully to the initial pull even if Ive only been at the bar for like 30 minutes and Im getting some token objections. Anyways, would appreciate some input especially on the part about the threesome!
Cheers,
BigS
Last night went out to some bars with my buddy--hes a super tall black dude who does really well for himself game-wise--Ill call him BigC. We go to the first bar and I immediately see 3 girls sitting at a table. BigC and I go to the bathroom and when we get back I immediately open them up, we sit down, and they're super into us.
BigC has a very genuine style of game since he's like 6"6' and has never really needed to try to get girls--they just come to him. So we're all talking and im playing the quiet/kind of asshole guy and letting him tell the girls about us (we're both in medical school).
The girls are qualifying themselves to us, getting super excited and girly. Two of them are pretty cute (one of which who Ill call Taylor) and the third is actually significantly hotter--Ill call her Claire. Claire was more confident and was throwing some shit tests at me but they were pretty simple to pass.
I decided we should all move and play darts. At this point I didnt know who I was going for--we were kind of all taking turns talking one-on-one and feeling out the connections.
We are playing darts and I start flirting pretty hard with Taylor. We hold hands sometimes and I also pick her up to show her how strong I am
I finish my drink so move Taylor to the bar where we're isolated. She actually finished her drink but I didnt offer to buy her one. I give her my card and tell her to order my drink for my and sign my receipt. This is just to get compliance.
She does something strange and takes the liberty of asking the bartender for a drink of her own. I could've checked Taylor and told her Im not buying a drink for her, but they were cheap and I didnt think this would really help the interaction--I didnt want to decrease my attainability too much as she was clearly really into me.
We make out for a bit at the bar and there's absolutely no resistance on her part
At this point we're about 30 min in (its like 10pm) and I figure if Im gonna show Taylor that I have some balls then I should try to pull her home now. I tell her we should go to her place now and she giggles and acts girly but gives token objections that her friends are here and she can't leave them. I mess up and fail to push hard enough/just decide for both of us that we're leaving now. Period.
That would've been the mindset to get a LR--literally get both of our feet moving towards the door. I failed to do this though. However, this ask for the pull had a positive effect because she knew that I wasn't a pussy and could actually pull her at the end of the night if need be.
At this point things start to get a little hazy because BigC keeps on handing me drinks and some more of our buddies come so its a big jolly group now.
Claire (the hotter one of the group) actually starts to get frustrated that none of my friends are hitting on her. I try to hint to some of them to make a move on her, but they're being very aloof and their attainability is too low since they're all like 6"6' and have girls hitting on them.
Interesting Part!
Claire comes to me and Taylor to express her frustration and suggests that we just have a threesome. I get a little anxious but of course I would want to. I realize that this would require me flirting with Claire, so I turn to her and start touching her a bit. I dont really know how to move this forward though so it fizzles out... anyone know what to do in this situation?
I feel like the answer is clearly to flirt and set up some sort of chase frame since I am the one in scarcity and she literally just asked to have sex with us. How much of attention should I devote to Claire at this point? I dont want Taylor to get jealous of us. Also, I need to set a new frame that its the 3 of us now--how do I do this?
We're all dancing and Im making out with Taylor, but Claire actually gets super frustrated and decides to leave. So its me and Taylor and then BigC and the third girl from before.
Im pretty lit at this point so I start to seed the idea of us going home together. I repetitively tell her "Im not having sex with you tonight!" In retrospect I probably said this too many times and made my intentions too obvious.
Taylor starts to tell me that she's going home soon, but that "we are definitely going home separately". I dont take this as a rejection, just that we cant let anyone else know that we're going home together.
At some point we leave the club together but I notice a mood change in Taylor. She doesn't seem excited or girly, but is perseverating on us not sleeping together tonight.
The subway ride to her place takes a while so I feel like the excitement dies down and we're just two drunk idiots on a subway, lol. I walk her to her apartment and say I need to use her bathroom (I really did).
I go inside, take my shoes off, take a piss, and then come out. She's clearly not giving me a tour and wants me to leave. I instead ask her for a glass of water, but she still wants me to leave. I dont try to escalate cuz her mood is changed and she's not feeling it anymore.
I feel like this was probably due to Claire getting pissed, me not making the initial pull earlier in the night, and just the excitement dying down.
In the future I just gotta commit fully to the initial pull even if Ive only been at the bar for like 30 minutes and Im getting some token objections. Anyways, would appreciate some input especially on the part about the threesome!
Cheers,
BigS
