Videos Masterful Compliance Example

[Chase]

Aside from being a really funny video, this is a pitch perfect example of how you get girls giving you all kinds of compliance they'll never give in a million years to most guys - note that Fousey leads with nonverbals and only uses minimal verbal explanation when necessary:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VmkL2YX3OCk

If you want to pull off crazy compliance with people, watch this film. Note how everyone just obeys? That's actually how it works, with almost everyone.

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[PinotNoir]

He's so calm about it too like it's normal, like the most normal thing he does everyday.

It's bittersweet because I laughed hard but some of it was a bit mean haha.

This definitely paints a better picture of how I should ask women for compliance, just calm confidence with minimal verbals like you said. "Hey, hold my hand" or "Hey, come with me, I got to show you something." And if she resists, just keep tugging and giving few words like I've known her my entire life.

EDIT: The other day I was reading your 2 field reports in the appendix section of your book, and this reminded me of when you were at the club with that girl talking to her friend. You tugged her to go, and she didn't, and then this guy came over and asked where you lived. You answered, and then you just tugged again and told her to go and she agreed. I imagine the non-verbals were a bit similar.

 

[Chase]

EDIT: The other day I was reading your 2 field reports in the appendix section of your book, and this reminded me of when you were at the club with that girl talking to her friend. You tugged her to go, and she didn't, and then this guy came over and asked where you lived. You answered, and then you just tugged again and told her to go and she agreed. I imagine the non-verbals were a bit similar.

Yes, that's what it is.

It's moderately chicken-and-egg because you've got to just KNOW that people will comply with you when you tell them to comply this way. When a guy's just starting out, he usually won't be able to do this because it'll just feel too imposing for him.

However, once you try this a few times, even if you're a little hesitant when you do it, you'll find that by insisting most people will go along with you more often than not.

And once you've had the experience of people just magically complying, you just do it from an increasingly authoritative position and everyone around you just submits. Notice how even much bigger guys than Fousey submit and comply here as well. Once they realize what's happened and become adversarial they're no longer compliant, and then it's a stare-down situation where they walk if they don't think they can beat him in a fight or they'll agitate if they do, but you won't have this happen with women because you won't be stealing gym machines from them and instead you'll just be leading them into situations that bring them closer to you and feeling good.

The only time it gets adversarial with a girl is when you talk her into moving with you or leaving with you and she didn't have any desire to, but went along with it just because you were so authoritative in how you had her come along. When that happens, all you can do is laugh if she ends up bailing because you realize you were in the midst of pulling a girl that had absolutely no interest in going home and sleeping with you yet you were so completely good at moving things along that this girl just went along with it anyway.

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[Mr.Rob]

The best one is the Indian dude: "I am working maaaanee..." Fucking funniest accent ever