Meeting up after the 1st date/instadate?

[jka1911]

I'm having issues meeting up with girls after the instadate.
- I'm an avid daygamer but I'm running into issues after the instadate. Usually, i do drinks/coffee and then bounce to my house/theirs.
- I go for the close @ the instadate but it doesn't always work (LMR).
- I set up my 2nd date meetups in person during the instadate if I can't close...
- When i message them about the 2nd date.. they start flaking.
Tips/thoughts? any info would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

 

[Boom_1982]

What percentage of your first dates do not close & how do you approach these dates? For the purpose of meeting women or taking them to bed?

 

[jka1911]

What percentage of your first dates do not close & how do you approach these dates? For the purpose of meeting women or taking them to bed?

i would say 50%. im taking them to bed

 

[Skills]

I'm having issues meeting up with girls after the instadate.
- I'm an avid daygamer but I'm running into issues after the instadate. Usually, i do drinks/coffee and then bounce to my house/theirs.
- I go for the close @ the instadate but it doesn't always work (LMR).
- I set up my 2nd date meetups in person during the instadate if I can't close...
- When i message them about the 2nd date.. they start flaking.
Tips/thoughts? any info would be greatly appreciated. Thanks!

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[Fuck This]

i would say 50%. im taking them to bed

That's a good percentage, really.

 

[Boom_1982]

That's a good percentage, really.

@jka1911 Agreed and you should be happy about it. For the remaining, I'd suggest focus on getting to know them(deep dive) and increase their curiosity about you by further increasing your sexiness. Thereafter, invite to your place such that it feels an extension of that convo because some chicks are possibly sensing your main objective and not comfortable about it which can be due to several reasons outside your control such as having boyfriend, cultural belief, you're not her type etc so I'm recommending a one size fits all approach that should work in most situations.