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Saturday I went back to my hometown for memorial day weekend. During the 40 minute drive back I got into a fantastic state, jamming to music, adding... feeling confident and good to go.
"I'm the shit."
"Nothing will stop me tonight."
My attire for the night consists of a white linen button down, medium stained levi 514's( 1 rolled just showing off the ankle), Sahara colored boat shoes, silver Cote D' Azur watch. Most of the people dress extremely preppy- bright colored button downs, khaki shorts, boat shoes/sandals, so I wanted to tweak that enough to still look nice but different.
Go out with 4.The place has 3 bars including a dance floor and a newly refurbished dock bar its good packed but not so much its tough to move.
I see an acquaintance and his GF and immediately disengage from my group, banter with them for 10-15, tease his GF about losing her wallet and convince them to take a shot with me.
After that I move to hit the head and I this tall guy(Matt) stops me for a shot. He is with 2 other girls Megan and lesbian party girl.
-lingering hand hold
-strong eye contact
-excited talking
After 40 minutes I grab Megan's number and of course Matt has returned. He decides to do the same-- oh boy..... I realize he may become a pest, but still confident if I'm clear I can handle him and he won't cock block. Gay guys are more prone to cock assist... no pun intended.
After I break off from them I meet back up with my friends and catch up with a guy I went to elementary, middle, and high school with. It's a pretty animated conversation so we are all enjoying... I notice a blonde girl oooogling. 3 times we make eye contact and by the 3rd time I hold for 20 seconds.
I then move.
I fucked up after this because as I was screening I got completely distracted by the 3rd friend, who used to be best friends with another girl I briefly dated and always had a crush on. The 3rd friend was way more attractive, and I completely disregarded Connie. No bueno.
Disappointed in myself for this FU, but the night didn't stall out... only got more interesting.
Meet back up with Megan and low and behold Matt isn't around so I can build a better connection. Lots of touching and strong eye contact. She talks a lot about herself with me just relating and listening. She ends up holding my arm, with me leaning against the bar and her sitting.
The bar is getting ready to close, and we are fully prepared to go back to her hotel room... just need to find Matt. I still think I can make it work.
One of my group comes over....
She completely shut down, went ice cold.... I was shell shocked. Tried to recover, but she wouldn't open back up.
- I figured out why later, but I'm not sure how I should have handled it.
Frustrated after 5 minutes of cold responses, I bailed. started to walk back from the bar.... on the walk I recovered and decided to truck through. run into Matt outside the bar and he's all worried about Megan... can't find her... she has no phone... stupid shit. I decide to help, but I haven't a clue where she is. At one point I take a piss in the alley and he comes stands behind me.......in the alley. "Matt back off, I'm pissing here!"
We walk around a bit eventually come back to the bar and she has been inside the entire time even though it was as cleared out.... doing god knows what. My guess is she is still contemplating what Z said.
She seems present and we get a cab back to their hotel. Megan gets in first, I get in second in the middle and Matt on the right of me. Megan latches back on my arm and then Matt puts his arm around me... starts getting dicey
"Me: Matt, I told you. I'm not gay, I like women.
Megan: Matt!!!
Matt: hahahaha
Me: I'm serious move your arm. "
He does it again 5 minutes later... man can't help himself. I still remain chill about it, because he is harmless, gay and I doubt he would hurt a fly. I'm also not that drunk,I can handle myself and I think the girl is a shoe in.
Back in the hotel room.
We sit on the two double beds and contemplate how to find more booze. He sits next to me... too close. I laugh switch beds and Megan sits next to me... touch re-ignited with her all good. We give up on booze and I plug in my phone play music on the hotel clock and we start dancing. "Danza Kuduro", and "See you again" are played. I'm behind her it's heating up and I'm completely locked in. We kiss a little dance a little, who knows what Matt is doing but he isn't touching me so IDC. Some hotel guy tells us to turn the music off.
We sit down.... where do you think Matt sits... Yep, I move again. Another, "Matt conversation ensues." I go to the bathroom and when I come out they are both laying on the bed. Matt is on the far side and Megan is in the middle. She beckons me over. I give her a skeptical look
I don't remember the exact order of operations but,
- Megan and I start heating things up
- the lights are turned off
- Matt switches to the other bed
I escalate from kissing to rubbing her legs up her dress and kissing her neck. Heavy breathing follows and she helps me get her dress shoulder strap down to access her tits(no braaaaaa: love it). Think I'm golden, before I make it to her whispering eye she drops a bomb.
I left shortly after, grabbed an uber and told the driver the story at 4:30 AM in the McDonalds drive thru.
I'm not sure if the story accurately depicts how fucking weird it was living it, but I would have loved lay her after all that BS. She called me at 3am the next night after the bar and I wasn't doing anything so I talked to her completely plastered about.... fuck if I know. Something about how I wanted to fuck her brains out etc. etc.... Too bad she isn't local. She text me last night as well, but I was already asleep and back to my apartment.
Recapping the night.
Pro's:
-strong "pregame" prep
-inner game was really good... I felt like the shit and that I owned the bar.
-got away from the safety net of friends really early
-pretty happy with the way I managed Matt and kept my cool.
-on the brink of losing the entire night I regained composure
Con's:
-broke circle with Blondie
-failed LMR with Megan
-could have handled my buddies stupid "go get it" comment better
-brum
"I'm the shit."
"Nothing will stop me tonight."
My attire for the night consists of a white linen button down, medium stained levi 514's( 1 rolled just showing off the ankle), Sahara colored boat shoes, silver Cote D' Azur watch. Most of the people dress extremely preppy- bright colored button downs, khaki shorts, boat shoes/sandals, so I wanted to tweak that enough to still look nice but different.
Go out with 4.The place has 3 bars including a dance floor and a newly refurbished dock bar its good packed but not so much its tough to move.
I see an acquaintance and his GF and immediately disengage from my group, banter with them for 10-15, tease his GF about losing her wallet and convince them to take a shot with me.
After that I move to hit the head and I this tall guy(Matt) stops me for a shot. He is with 2 other girls Megan and lesbian party girl.
The entire conversation was playful, and quickly I'm accepted into the group. Matt is clearly gay and I soon discover him and the third girl(Megan) are best friends from out of town. I deep dive them and find go into a story about the friends I just met from the same area. Megan is really cute and is shows strong signs of interest, so I stick around long enough to find myself 1on1.
-lingering hand hold
-strong eye contact
-excited talking
After 40 minutes I grab Megan's number and of course Matt has returned. He decides to do the same-- oh boy..... I realize he may become a pest, but still confident if I'm clear I can handle him and he won't cock block. Gay guys are more prone to cock assist... no pun intended.
After I break off from them I meet back up with my friends and catch up with a guy I went to elementary, middle, and high school with. It's a pretty animated conversation so we are all enjoying... I notice a blonde girl oooogling. 3 times we make eye contact and by the 3rd time I hold for 20 seconds.
I then move.
I fucked up after this because as I was screening I got completely distracted by the 3rd friend, who used to be best friends with another girl I briefly dated and always had a crush on. The 3rd friend was way more attractive, and I completely disregarded Connie. No bueno.
Disappointed in myself for this FU, but the night didn't stall out... only got more interesting.
Meet back up with Megan and low and behold Matt isn't around so I can build a better connection. Lots of touching and strong eye contact. She talks a lot about herself with me just relating and listening. She ends up holding my arm, with me leaning against the bar and her sitting.
The bar is getting ready to close, and we are fully prepared to go back to her hotel room... just need to find Matt. I still think I can make it work.
One of my group comes over....
She completely shut down, went ice cold.... I was shell shocked. Tried to recover, but she wouldn't open back up.
- I figured out why later, but I'm not sure how I should have handled it.
Frustrated after 5 minutes of cold responses, I bailed. started to walk back from the bar.... on the walk I recovered and decided to truck through. run into Matt outside the bar and he's all worried about Megan... can't find her... she has no phone... stupid shit. I decide to help, but I haven't a clue where she is. At one point I take a piss in the alley and he comes stands behind me.......in the alley. "Matt back off, I'm pissing here!"
We walk around a bit eventually come back to the bar and she has been inside the entire time even though it was as cleared out.... doing god knows what. My guess is she is still contemplating what Z said.
She seems present and we get a cab back to their hotel. Megan gets in first, I get in second in the middle and Matt on the right of me. Megan latches back on my arm and then Matt puts his arm around me... starts getting dicey
"Me: Matt, I told you. I'm not gay, I like women.
Megan: Matt!!!
Matt: hahahaha
Me: I'm serious move your arm. "
He does it again 5 minutes later... man can't help himself. I still remain chill about it, because he is harmless, gay and I doubt he would hurt a fly. I'm also not that drunk,I can handle myself and I think the girl is a shoe in.
Back in the hotel room.
We sit on the two double beds and contemplate how to find more booze. He sits next to me... too close. I laugh switch beds and Megan sits next to me... touch re-ignited with her all good. We give up on booze and I plug in my phone play music on the hotel clock and we start dancing. "Danza Kuduro", and "See you again" are played. I'm behind her it's heating up and I'm completely locked in. We kiss a little dance a little, who knows what Matt is doing but he isn't touching me so IDC. Some hotel guy tells us to turn the music off.
We sit down.... where do you think Matt sits... Yep, I move again. Another, "Matt conversation ensues." I go to the bathroom and when I come out they are both laying on the bed. Matt is on the far side and Megan is in the middle. She beckons me over. I give her a skeptical look
I don't remember the exact order of operations but,
- Megan and I start heating things up
- the lights are turned off
- Matt switches to the other bed
I escalate from kissing to rubbing her legs up her dress and kissing her neck. Heavy breathing follows and she helps me get her dress shoulder strap down to access her tits(no braaaaaa: love it). Think I'm golden, before I make it to her whispering eye she drops a bomb.
from there I took the wrong approach and tried to logic her. Didn't work obviously. Normally I would just try stop and re-escalate, but the BF curveball threw me off and I'm not sure if I need to handle this type of LMR different then normal kind?
I left shortly after, grabbed an uber and told the driver the story at 4:30 AM in the McDonalds drive thru.
I'm not sure if the story accurately depicts how fucking weird it was living it, but I would have loved lay her after all that BS. She called me at 3am the next night after the bar and I wasn't doing anything so I talked to her completely plastered about.... fuck if I know. Something about how I wanted to fuck her brains out etc. etc.... Too bad she isn't local. She text me last night as well, but I was already asleep and back to my apartment.
Recapping the night.
Pro's:
-strong "pregame" prep
-inner game was really good... I felt like the shit and that I owned the bar.
-got away from the safety net of friends really early
-pretty happy with the way I managed Matt and kept my cool.
-on the brink of losing the entire night I regained composure
Con's:
-broke circle with Blondie
-failed LMR with Megan
-could have handled my buddies stupid "go get it" comment better
-brum
