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Quantum

Space Monkey
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Hey folks,

I don't usually blush in front of attractive women (or anyone) but found myself blushing in front of a girl a few days ago. Long story short, she's an office colleague who I've known for close to a year now. Asked her out at some point but things didn't work out. I moved on after that. Part of me believes she was and still is attracted to me but I decided an office relationship was asking for trouble.

Recently, we've had a few nice conversations with some flirting, a bit of touching, etc.. I only see her every couple weeks for a brief time. The last couple times I've noticed that I started blushing!

This was kind of strange because I was still talking to her with a high level of confidence. I felt kind of silly, like I was in middle school.

A little bit of color looks great on my face imo. Being that it's the middle of winter, I was a little bit shook up and embarrassed from this.

If I had to guess, I'd say that girls would find a guy blushing at them cute. Not sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing.

Does anyone have any experience or opinion regarding men blushing? I'm very curious to see some thoughts on this.

TLDR: How good or bad is it if you blush in front of a woman? Does this change whether it's someone you just met or know for a while?
 
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Sam Dray

Space Monkey
space monkey
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-Quantum

It's actually a two way street.. From personal experience..some women view it as a weakness when blush infront of them and others find it cute and attractive.

For me.. Working and focusing on nonverbal gestures/comnunication helps you combat the problem.

Yes.. You'll still blush from time to time.. But you gain more control over it.

Try reading the articles on.. Fundamentals, Nonverbals, Charisma, Confidence and the Conversation Examples.
 
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