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Standing in a big square in a big European city. Had been chatting up girls for 2 hours: 3 indirect to warm up and train fundamentals and 1 direct... that's what I usually do when I go out as a daygame beginner.
I see a girl standing 9 meters away from me. "She's young and cute" I think. She shortly looks at me but I don't think much of it.I look in another direction, then I look back towards her: now she's suddenly standing just 1 and a half meter from me as if she literally walked up to me after looking at me. She has phone out, looking lost and confused as if she wanted me to help her.
I say "hi, how are you?".... her: "Hi" (smiling in a shy but warm way). Me: "you look kinda confused, are you ok?" she says: "I am not so good actually" and she starts saying some s**t about how she can't find the right tram. But this is silly. It's pretty obvious what tram she needs to take. As I tell her multiple ways she can get to the place she needs to go, she kinda moves around me in a half-shy / half-sensual way, almost as if she was performing some kinda of dance. She starts saying it's her first day in town... she's staying for 5 weeks etc. She's really engaging.
Now, an advanced day gamer would have said: "you know what, I've got 10 minutes, I'll walk you to the place you need to go".
What did I do? Kept giving her directions like an idiot and then told her goodbye before shaking her hand.
I got so caught up in this idea that day game is hard as hell for an average looking guy like me and that it will take months if not years to master it that the idea that a cute girl would approach invite me so blatantly was outside of my reality.
I should have had that chick in my bed yesterday night. Well. Lesson learned I guess: be open to the idea that while you're out working hard to improve your day game, some hottie may just show up and do half the work for you.
I see a girl standing 9 meters away from me. "She's young and cute" I think. She shortly looks at me but I don't think much of it.I look in another direction, then I look back towards her: now she's suddenly standing just 1 and a half meter from me as if she literally walked up to me after looking at me. She has phone out, looking lost and confused as if she wanted me to help her.
I say "hi, how are you?".... her: "Hi" (smiling in a shy but warm way). Me: "you look kinda confused, are you ok?" she says: "I am not so good actually" and she starts saying some s**t about how she can't find the right tram. But this is silly. It's pretty obvious what tram she needs to take. As I tell her multiple ways she can get to the place she needs to go, she kinda moves around me in a half-shy / half-sensual way, almost as if she was performing some kinda of dance. She starts saying it's her first day in town... she's staying for 5 weeks etc. She's really engaging.
Now, an advanced day gamer would have said: "you know what, I've got 10 minutes, I'll walk you to the place you need to go".
What did I do? Kept giving her directions like an idiot and then told her goodbye before shaking her hand.
I got so caught up in this idea that day game is hard as hell for an average looking guy like me and that it will take months if not years to master it that the idea that a cute girl would approach invite me so blatantly was outside of my reality.
I should have had that chick in my bed yesterday night. Well. Lesson learned I guess: be open to the idea that while you're out working hard to improve your day game, some hottie may just show up and do half the work for you.
