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I have been going out more and more every weekend because I met a cool wingman, we have gone out for 3 to 4 weeks straight now but we chatted a bit in regards to what we want out of the game long-term. In other words, we don't just want to keep always approaching when we day-drink or run game at a nightclub and bar. We want to get to a point in life where a year from now, we are getting hot girls as a part of our circle or just simply because of our lifestyle.
1. We discussed the strategy of making friends with certain girls and then going out with them to the many nightclubs and bars here in NYC, obviously this means social proof for us. My wing said that this is not a good idea because those girls will get jealous and won't be down to be wingwomen or used like that.
2. We discussed adding a couple more guys to the crew when going out but I feel paranoid about this a bit, add a wrong guy or toxic character, the whole thing falls apart. I have dealt with a lot of bitter, jealous, scheming, and toxic guys that cannot be trusted to make the group too big.
3. We discussed making friends with bartenders and nightlife staff, unfortunately I have had a rough go at this because I find that those guys are just there to make their money and go off. Here in the US, nightclub bartenders are generally a pompous crowd.
I'd love to hear some advice on what we can do.
1. We discussed the strategy of making friends with certain girls and then going out with them to the many nightclubs and bars here in NYC, obviously this means social proof for us. My wing said that this is not a good idea because those girls will get jealous and won't be down to be wingwomen or used like that.
2. We discussed adding a couple more guys to the crew when going out but I feel paranoid about this a bit, add a wrong guy or toxic character, the whole thing falls apart. I have dealt with a lot of bitter, jealous, scheming, and toxic guys that cannot be trusted to make the group too big.
3. We discussed making friends with bartenders and nightlife staff, unfortunately I have had a rough go at this because I find that those guys are just there to make their money and go off. Here in the US, nightclub bartenders are generally a pompous crowd.
I'd love to hear some advice on what we can do.
