Hey guys...my name's Mike and this is my first post here, looking for a little help.
i've read a few articles in the past, and have been frantically reading some articles today trying to figure out what to do.
here's the situation: i just got out of a 1-yr relationship about a month ago, and i'm trying to meet some new girls and broaden my horizons. I work at a car dealership and talk to new people all day, but when it comes to talking to girls personally and not professionally, I tend to be shy at first. today, a co-worker of mine was selling a car to a super cute girl, and he even went out of his way to let me know that she was single. i talked to her VERY briefly in passing, but pretty much fell flat on my face. i don't think i said anything wrong...i just didnt really say anything at all. we talked a bit about her current job, her old job, and the fact that she was buying a new car. then i had to leave, at which point she handed me her business card which has her phone number and email on it.
i'd like to follow up with her, but not sure how to approach it. i never really laid any groundwork for myself doing any followup, so I'm afraid that i might come off as creepy or "chasing". all i have is the fact that she handed me her card.
so my question is: should i let this one go, or try to make something out of a botched opportunity? and if it's ok to contact her, should i text? call? email? which might be my best chance? what to say?
thanks in advance for any advice! now, back to reading....
i've read a few articles in the past, and have been frantically reading some articles today trying to figure out what to do.
here's the situation: i just got out of a 1-yr relationship about a month ago, and i'm trying to meet some new girls and broaden my horizons. I work at a car dealership and talk to new people all day, but when it comes to talking to girls personally and not professionally, I tend to be shy at first. today, a co-worker of mine was selling a car to a super cute girl, and he even went out of his way to let me know that she was single. i talked to her VERY briefly in passing, but pretty much fell flat on my face. i don't think i said anything wrong...i just didnt really say anything at all. we talked a bit about her current job, her old job, and the fact that she was buying a new car. then i had to leave, at which point she handed me her business card which has her phone number and email on it.
i'd like to follow up with her, but not sure how to approach it. i never really laid any groundwork for myself doing any followup, so I'm afraid that i might come off as creepy or "chasing". all i have is the fact that she handed me her card.
so my question is: should i let this one go, or try to make something out of a botched opportunity? and if it's ok to contact her, should i text? call? email? which might be my best chance? what to say?
thanks in advance for any advice! now, back to reading....