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Hey guys...need advise.
I had made an account on Couchsurfing many years ago and completely forgot about it. One day I randomly ended up on it and saw this cute girl looking for a place to stay for a night so I invited her (what the heck lets see what this is about atitude). When she came in I was about to head to work but chatted for 20 mins. After work we met up and we hit it off rightaway. Great chemistry. Had dinner. Went back to my place where she was staying as well. Smoked weed started making out, dry humping etc. tried to go for sex multiple times but was unsuccessful. The kissing continued. It was amazing. Never had chemistry like this before. Next morning we went to a beach an hour an half away by metro. At this point we really liked each other--holding hands in public, kissing, teasing, talking about life and stuff in general. It was all around great connection. We make out more at the beach, tease then head back towards home for late lunch. Then go back home. Hardcore dry humping (basically having sex in all kinds of positions without actual penetration. kissing etc. she gave me the most amazing blowjob. This time she let me take her panties off (finally) but I couldn't close the deal. It seemed like she was adamant she didnt want me to think that I just wanted to use her for sex (my opinion). We had to break up our fun because she had a train to catch. I dropped her off to the station and kissed her goodbye. This is our text exchange after that::
Her: I've had such an amazing time with you thank you
Me: I have had the greatest time with you. You are an amazing person inside and out. Looking forward to building our connection. You will be missed until we meet again
Her: So have I! You've helped me let go and have so much fun in LA. I needed it so much! You're such a sexy, incredible guy. I can't wait to help grow it
I'm going to miss you too 
............Then we exchanged a couple of random texts about her forgetting her shoes etc. We talked on the phone a few days after she had left and it seemed great.
I sent her a text a couple days later about the train accident that was the same one she would've been on etc. she replied. i made a random comment then she replied another 3 days later.
Then I asked her about skyping/video chat soon so we can see our faces, when are you free?.................No response for a week.
She liked a video of me doing a scene on facebook a couple of days after I had sent this text.....
Thanks to everyone who had the patience to read this. It's obvious I really like her. Never quite had a connection on all levels with another girl before. She said all the right things when she was with me. I never double texted or anything. So I'm not sure whats going on if anything. I'm planning on calling her this coming Saturday. I obviously will completely ignore her non response assuming it stays that way.
Any ideas how I should proceed etc? I want something meaningful with this girl if not now then sometime in the future. I'm dating other girls and sleeping with other girls in the meanwhile but its just not the same. I expect she might be too but I don't care about what she does with others. I'm hoping to invite her on a roadtrip i'm taking this summer. Any advise/opinions are appreciated. Thanks.
I had made an account on Couchsurfing many years ago and completely forgot about it. One day I randomly ended up on it and saw this cute girl looking for a place to stay for a night so I invited her (what the heck lets see what this is about atitude). When she came in I was about to head to work but chatted for 20 mins. After work we met up and we hit it off rightaway. Great chemistry. Had dinner. Went back to my place where she was staying as well. Smoked weed started making out, dry humping etc. tried to go for sex multiple times but was unsuccessful. The kissing continued. It was amazing. Never had chemistry like this before. Next morning we went to a beach an hour an half away by metro. At this point we really liked each other--holding hands in public, kissing, teasing, talking about life and stuff in general. It was all around great connection. We make out more at the beach, tease then head back towards home for late lunch. Then go back home. Hardcore dry humping (basically having sex in all kinds of positions without actual penetration. kissing etc. she gave me the most amazing blowjob. This time she let me take her panties off (finally) but I couldn't close the deal. It seemed like she was adamant she didnt want me to think that I just wanted to use her for sex (my opinion). We had to break up our fun because she had a train to catch. I dropped her off to the station and kissed her goodbye. This is our text exchange after that::
Her: I've had such an amazing time with you thank you
Me: I have had the greatest time with you. You are an amazing person inside and out. Looking forward to building our connection. You will be missed until we meet again
Her: So have I! You've helped me let go and have so much fun in LA. I needed it so much! You're such a sexy, incredible guy. I can't wait to help grow it
............Then we exchanged a couple of random texts about her forgetting her shoes etc. We talked on the phone a few days after she had left and it seemed great.
I sent her a text a couple days later about the train accident that was the same one she would've been on etc. she replied. i made a random comment then she replied another 3 days later.
Then I asked her about skyping/video chat soon so we can see our faces, when are you free?.................No response for a week.
She liked a video of me doing a scene on facebook a couple of days after I had sent this text.....
Thanks to everyone who had the patience to read this. It's obvious I really like her. Never quite had a connection on all levels with another girl before. She said all the right things when she was with me. I never double texted or anything. So I'm not sure whats going on if anything. I'm planning on calling her this coming Saturday. I obviously will completely ignore her non response assuming it stays that way.
Any ideas how I should proceed etc? I want something meaningful with this girl if not now then sometime in the future. I'm dating other girls and sleeping with other girls in the meanwhile but its just not the same. I expect she might be too but I don't care about what she does with others. I'm hoping to invite her on a roadtrip i'm taking this summer. Any advise/opinions are appreciated. Thanks.