What a bizarre lay I had yesterday. Pissed ex-boyfriend involved, picking up his former girl in front of him in the rain and a lay 50 minutes after introduction on the streets.
As I finished my last post I decided to go out and meet my flatmate and her friends at a bar close to our house. Nothing happened there since places don't get stacked before midnight, but I had fun with her friends, danced a little and got to get more familiar with signals from girls at night venues, which I found out is actually the same as during the day.
I have, however, little experience talking to women in bars and clubs and not used to interruptions and all that, so I did not manage to approach at all. After an hour at the bar, I decided to go for a walk in the rain looking for girls.
I walk for 30 minutes. Nothing worth writing about, until I go to one of the local food stores and find a cute, petite middle eastern girl talking to the guys at the store and entering. I soon follow only to get pleasantly surprised when she send me a signal of interest and I introduce myself. It turns out she lives nearby and I say we could walk together if she wanted to.
Her ex-give me a mean look and start arguing with her in their language, I did not want to get involved in a fight so I just walk from that place slowly.
Then I turn around and hear her telling me to stop.
We start walking and as I qualify her I see that she gets nervous and giggly talking to me. I see this as a very good sign. She invites me home "to hang out before going out together". I see this as an opportunity to escalate.
A very good sign. Because that meant something could happen if I managed not to fuck up.
To be sure "she got it" I gave her compliments and looked at her intensely in her eyes. 10 minutes in I try to kiss.
So I say that's okay and start searching for music videos and talking about the music we were looking at. If she doesn't want to have sex, that's okay. I have some girls lined up for next week, which is truly acting from abundance.
Something happens here because me being chill about it made her go to the room, come back and invite me to her bed to massage me.
She massages me and tells me "not to fall asleep". I promised her a massage in return and do so.
*I tell her to take off her shirt so I could oil her back.
*As she does this I take off her bra without asking for permission.
*I massage her good for around 15 minutes and then kiss her back, neck and start touching her breasts. 6 minutes later we start having sex.
The thing is, while I was spending time with her, her ex-was calling her. She ignored his calls throughout the whole session and we fall asleep after 25 minutes of sex.
She says she doesn't move that quick, but couldn't resist how hot I am and how chill I seem.
I wake up 2 hours later and leave her apartment when her ex called her once again. It did not feel right to be there, in case he comes over and find me there....
So that was that. I loved how I just maintained my chill through tense situations and was completely fine not having sex as well. Surprisingly enough, that what happens when you just "accept what is". This game is getting increasingly spiritual.
I also managed to break through as well. Getting a lay straight from the streets in an hour when least expected. Now I know whats possible...
Lets try to go for more of those crazy lays!!
As I finished my last post I decided to go out and meet my flatmate and her friends at a bar close to our house. Nothing happened there since places don't get stacked before midnight, but I had fun with her friends, danced a little and got to get more familiar with signals from girls at night venues, which I found out is actually the same as during the day.
I have, however, little experience talking to women in bars and clubs and not used to interruptions and all that, so I did not manage to approach at all. After an hour at the bar, I decided to go for a walk in the rain looking for girls.
I walk for 30 minutes. Nothing worth writing about, until I go to one of the local food stores and find a cute, petite middle eastern girl talking to the guys at the store and entering. I soon follow only to get pleasantly surprised when she send me a signal of interest and I introduce myself. It turns out she lives nearby and I say we could walk together if she wanted to.
Her ex-give me a mean look and start arguing with her in their language, I did not want to get involved in a fight so I just walk from that place slowly.
Then I turn around and hear her telling me to stop.
We start walking and as I qualify her I see that she gets nervous and giggly talking to me. I see this as a very good sign. She invites me home "to hang out before going out together". I see this as an opportunity to escalate.
A very good sign. Because that meant something could happen if I managed not to fuck up.
To be sure "she got it" I gave her compliments and looked at her intensely in her eyes. 10 minutes in I try to kiss.
So I say that's okay and start searching for music videos and talking about the music we were looking at. If she doesn't want to have sex, that's okay. I have some girls lined up for next week, which is truly acting from abundance.
Something happens here because me being chill about it made her go to the room, come back and invite me to her bed to massage me.
She massages me and tells me "not to fall asleep". I promised her a massage in return and do so.
*I tell her to take off her shirt so I could oil her back.
*As she does this I take off her bra without asking for permission.
*I massage her good for around 15 minutes and then kiss her back, neck and start touching her breasts. 6 minutes later we start having sex.
The thing is, while I was spending time with her, her ex-was calling her. She ignored his calls throughout the whole session and we fall asleep after 25 minutes of sex.
She says she doesn't move that quick, but couldn't resist how hot I am and how chill I seem.
I wake up 2 hours later and leave her apartment when her ex called her once again. It did not feel right to be there, in case he comes over and find me there....
So that was that. I loved how I just maintained my chill through tense situations and was completely fine not having sex as well. Surprisingly enough, that what happens when you just "accept what is". This game is getting increasingly spiritual.
I also managed to break through as well. Getting a lay straight from the streets in an hour when least expected. Now I know whats possible...
Lets try to go for more of those crazy lays!!
