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- Mar 5, 2013
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I've been doing ok in getting numbers and managing flakes. However, I recently met a girl that totally blew me out of the water. I met her at a club and I approached her and found out she was a 20 year old college student attending a christian university (she's christian as well, which made me wonder why she was in a nightclub). She came across as an inexperienced christian girl wanting to explore outside her religion. I didnt share much about myself except that im 23. I got her number and got out fast.
I then texted her at 4 am:
"Hey, nice to have met you tonight
"
to which she responded immediately:
"same here, we should meet up sometime since we live close to one another."
after this, i replied,
"sounds good!" and then waited until 7 pm the next day to ask her out to lunch.
When I asked her to lunch, she replied,
"okayy sure, sounds great. see you then!"
I didnt reply to this and thought it was a done deal and was ready to meet her Wednesday. However, exactly one hour later, she texts again:
"actually, I dont think I can meet up. I'm sorry"
I never had a flake occur with such speed, do you have any idea how to respond to something like this?
My fundamentals were solid, my texting was very reasonable so I have absolutely no idea if this is a test or whatever. Do you have any idea what to make of this mind blower?
I then texted her at 4 am:
"Hey, nice to have met you tonight
"to which she responded immediately:
"same here, we should meet up sometime since we live close to one another."
after this, i replied,
"sounds good!" and then waited until 7 pm the next day to ask her out to lunch.
When I asked her to lunch, she replied,
"okayy sure, sounds great. see you then!"
I didnt reply to this and thought it was a done deal and was ready to meet her Wednesday. However, exactly one hour later, she texts again:
"actually, I dont think I can meet up. I'm sorry"
I never had a flake occur with such speed, do you have any idea how to respond to something like this?
My fundamentals were solid, my texting was very reasonable so I have absolutely no idea if this is a test or whatever. Do you have any idea what to make of this mind blower?
