Mind Games

[ILoveElla]

Anyone here like playing mind games? I don't playing mind games generally speaking, or being cruel for the sake of it. But I do like stinging someone twice as hard who dares to fuck with me in this way. I will happily engage with them in their own game hoping to win. You when people are nasty to you in an unfair way, they presume that if you're going to get them back, that you'll do it there and then. They usually don't account for the fact that you might remember it. I always remember, and when a similar situation arises with me having the upper hand, instead of behaving like I naturally would in that situation, I instead go against my instincts and do the exact same thing to them that they did to me. I funny to see how confused they get.

Here's a mind game I did recently. The parents came home from holidays, and were in a good mood so took me and my younger sister out for dinner. She usually likes to be the one to lead the way in and say "table for 4" to the waiter because it makes her feel important. So this time, I took the initiative to be the one communicating most with the waitress and all that. There was one point in time where, at the same time, we actually both said, something like "yeah another jug of water please". I then acted like I was surprised, like I didn't see that coming. It really confused her, I'll admit I did it to prove a point. She was sulking for the rest of the afternoon. But she couldn't say what she what sulking about because she'd look like a fool.

Anyone else have any good mind game tactics?

 

[trashKENNUT]

ILoveella,

Always remember that Women are "un-objective" and that society needs your validation. You will go to the extremes if you are not careful but use this and you start to unravel things.

This is one few notes. The other notes that advanced guys gather, Most advanced PUAS don't recommend it. They won't tell you.

Too much power.

Zac

 

[ILoveElla]

ILoveella,

Always remember that Women are "un-objective" and that society needs your validation. You will go to the extremes if you are not careful but use this and you start to unravel things.

This is one few notes. The other notes that advanced guys gather, Most advanced PUAS don't recommend it. They won't tell you.

Too much power.

Zac

Listen up ZacAdam.

This thread is in the "off topic" section. So stop assuming that I'm referring to "women". It's something you need to get through your head. And it isn't the first time you've had to be corrected on this.

What you write lacks substance(as usual), and I am not in the mood for trying to make sense with the deliberately vague nonsense you come up with.

 

[trashKENNUT]

ILoveella,

Make this simple. What you doing works.

- Jumping the gun (means being aggressive st petty things)
- showing superiority

And lastly, Framing the other person.

It does help you that is if you already disrespected or being treated terribly in a friendship/relationship and the power is imbalance but take this to the extremes and you destroy both yourself and them.

Important, The reason I note why advanced PUAS won't tell you mind games is because the mind games can be improvise to use on people.

Honestly, you can modify Girlschase if you are smart enough. There's too many things being overlooked that are really gold nuggets. (and can be use in the wrong way)

Zac

 

[Tim Iron]

cool it... all you had to write was "ZacAdam pls explain"

ILoveella,

Always remember that Women are "un-objective" and that society needs your validation. You will go to the extremes if you are not careful but use this and you start to unravel things.

This is one few notes. The other notes that advanced guys gather, Most advanced PUAS don't recommend it. They won't tell you.

Too much power.

Zac

Listen up ZacAdam.

This thread is in the "off topic" section. So stop assuming that I'm referring to "women". It's something you need to get through your head. And it isn't the first time you've had to be corrected on this.

What you write lacks substance(as usual), and I am not in the mood for trying to make sense with the deliberately vague nonsense you come up with.

 

[ILoveElla]

cool it... all you had to write was "ZacAdam pls explain"

That would be giving him the benefit of the doubt!

 

[Inferno]

@ I loveella , you asked a question and got an answer, why do you need to lash out. If you disagree with zac, the best way is refuting his claims with evidince, not using Ad homenim and attacking his character rather than his argument. When I heard you talk about mind games and punishing people, you sound like someone who has been watching too much anime. (something I was guilty of in the past) The girlschsase boards are about improving yourself, no amount of mindgames will ever make you better, just an old hermit with no friends, take for example being an asshole this is what the article says "If you've seen Tropic Thunder, you doubtless remember Kirk Lazarus's actor's admonition to Chuck Speedman about never going full retard when playing the role of a mentally retarded person on screen.

Well, just like you never want to go full retard, you also never want to go full asshole.

FULL asshole is where you are SUCH a damn asshole that you're walking around ruining everybody's day around you just because.

Full asshole is when you're a dick for NO reason... just because you think that's what assholes do."

this is what your doing and nobody likes it, friends, girls or coworkers

ps- you just lied and said zac shouldn't think that this was about women, when you give a n anecdote about using them on your sister.

 

[Tim Iron]

God bless you Inferno, i didnt feel the need to reply him in details but you helped out..... he asked a question and zac answered and he just flared up!

@ I loveella , you asked a question and got an answer, why do you need to lash out. If you disagree with zac, the best way is refuting his claims with evidince, not using Ad homenim and attacking his character rather than his argument. When I heard you talk about mind games and punishing people, you sound like someone who has been watching too much anime. (something I was guilty of in the past) The girlschsase boards are about improving yourself, no amount of mindgames will ever make you better, just an old hermit with no friends, take for example being an asshole this is what the article says "If you've seen Tropic Thunder, you doubtless remember Kirk Lazarus's actor's admonition to Chuck Speedman about never going full retard when playing the role of a mentally retarded person on screen.

Well, just like you never want to go full retard, you also never want to go full asshole.

FULL asshole is where you are SUCH a damn asshole that you're walking around ruining everybody's day around you just because.

Full asshole is when you're a dick for NO reason... just because you think that's what assholes do."

this is what your doing and nobody likes it, friends, girls or coworkers

ps- you just lied and said zac shouldn't think that this was about women, when you give a n anecdote about using them on your sister.

 

[ILoveElla]

@ I loveella , you asked a question and got an answer, why do you need to lash out. If you disagree with zac, the best way is refuting his claims with evidince, not using Ad homenim and attacking his character rather than his argument. When I heard you talk about mind games and punishing people, you sound like someone who has been watching too much anime. (something I was guilty of in the past) The girlschsase boards are about improving yourself, no amount of mindgames will ever make you better, just an old hermit with no friends, take for example being an asshole this is what the article says "If you've seen Tropic Thunder, you doubtless remember Kirk Lazarus's actor's admonition to Chuck Speedman about never going full retard when playing the role of a mentally retarded person on screen.

Well, just like you never want to go full retard, you also never want to go full asshole.

FULL asshole is where you are SUCH a damn asshole that you're walking around ruining everybody's day around you just because.

Full asshole is when you're a dick for NO reason... just because you think that's what assholes do."

this is what your doing and nobody likes it, friends, girls or coworkers

ps- you just lied and said zac shouldn't think that this was about women, when you give a n anecdote about using them on your sister.

You are attacking my character by accusing me of lying. Can't believe I have to explain this to you, but the example with my sister obviously has nothing to do with 'women' per say, because I'm not trying to bed my sister!!

And in reality, from reading the stuff Zac writes, if I didn't know any better, I'd think it could have been cut and pasted from another random thread.

Now back to where we were regarding mind games...

 

[trashKENNUT]

ILoveella,

Why do you want mind games for?

If you have a problem with family or certain social circles, You have to "toughen up" and put abit of superiority and aggression to lessen that power imbalance.

I see there's an underlying tension on your relationships with people around you. Something is disturbing you.

Tell us how you end up there

Zac