Misa's Journey and Newbie Assignment.

[Misa19]

First things first, it feels good to finally join a community of like-minded individuals. Finding this website has been a godsend in terms of the knowledge that's hidden in here. But i'll be honest with you guys, i've been reading this website maybe for the past 2 years and I've consumed alot of things, but i have never, truly put anything into action. It's shameful i know. But things are about to change.

But first a bit of background into who i'am.
My name is Misael i'm a 19 year old that's currently living in a city called Mississauga, Ontario which is pretty close to Toronto if you're familiar with Canadian geography. I think Joseph, is from here as well but i digress.
When i mentioned "currently living here" i mean it very loosely, as i in fact, have lived in three different countries before i even turned 18! Although i was born in Canada i've lived in Mexico, United States and now i'm back to where i was born. I guess you can thank all the moving to my Mom's job. Living in so many different cultures has been both a blessing and a curse. A blessing in the fact that i've traveled alot, experienced alot of different cultures and really reprogrammed my brain into not really settling into one place and being open minded in what i really want to do in life which is to eventually become an entrepreneur. Because i crave freedom, and eh who doesn't right? But it's also been a curse in the fact that all the moving that i experienced has really prohibited me from forming any meaningful relationships or friendships at all. Also i'm introverted by nature so it's been a true challenge for me to go out there and start meeting new people or girls as i developed a fear of meeting people and then never seeing them again. It's not all grim at the moment tho, now that i'm 19 years old i finally have more control into making my own life decisions instead of depending on the decisions of other people, especially my parents. I will be living in this city into the foreseeable future while attend college starting this September.
So in light of that, i decided that i will guide my life to be able to achieve what i want to do in life and that is three main things.
1. Personal Development
2. Business Development
3. Women Development(pickup)
My goal is to achieve a high level of proficiency in those 3 areas of my life in the next 3 years so i can finally live the life i've always dreamed of while i'm still young at the age of 22. It's gonna be alot of work, nothing will be given to me for free and i understand that it's going to be a slow and tedious progress but that's the reason i made this topic. I want to hold my self responsible for the goals i want to accomplish and look forward to working with alot of members in this website. Any input is truly appreciated!
This is going to be along weekend for me, as i'll probably head out the the States on friday so i've decided that i'll start the newbie assignment on Monday.
I apologize if this was a little bit to much to read, but i promise in my next posts i'll make it short and sweet and i hope my journey will inspire other people who wanna change their lives to the same. Even if it helps one person it means alot.

Regards, Misael.

 

[ray_zorse]

Any progress over the weekend brother? Anyway, good to have you here. Subscribed. Ray

 

[Misa19]

Recap From The Weekend
Whoo. It was a long weekend for me and i haven't logged backed in since i posted my last post because i was busy traveling. Anyways not much happened in regards to my progress picking up women during this weekend. I did went to a family outing for fathers day and got to meet another side of my family that i don't get to see very often, especially a friend of the family who has two really cute younger daughters. Since i decided i was going to try to get better with women no matter the circumstances, i managed to make small talk with the two girls who were mostly just bored during the party. Nothing really special, but i did managed to get one girls phone number and the others Twitter account. She actually messaged me inviting to a party she's going later this week. Bingo.
I probably won't be talking to them that not much tho, since, you know, there's that whole their "really close" to the family type of friends and it's just screams of awkwardness if i try something haha. But it did help me realize that throughout my years i've never been really bad with women. I have a certain charm that once i get going and i feel "in the mood" i can have great success with women. It's just a matter of developing my natural skills.

DAY 1
So here we are; in Day 1 of the newbie assignment. Today was the easiest this is ever going to get and i enjoyed every moment. My assignment for today was simply to be observant and analyze my surroundings so i could pick 4 places where good-looking girls gather the most. Now thankfully i don't live in a small city, as some people might think, since i mentioned i lived in Canada, and i was able to choose those places fairly easy.
Location 1: The Central Bus Terminal. Since i mostly use the transit where i live this is a place that i frequent very regularly but it's also a place where ALOT of people frequent too. I have never really stopped to analyze the crowd before but since that was my assignment for today it actually helped me open my eyes to another world. By that i mean there are cute girls all over the place, going and coming from school, work etc. This is a pretty busy place so alot of women are going to be in a rush but in terms of the next coming days this is a really good place to quickly meet new people and interact with them. And the best part about this is...
Location 2: The Main Shopping Mall. The bus terminal is directly in front of the main shopping mall of the city, which means there's even a greater influx of young and hot women walking around this area. Specifically the food court area of the mall during afternoon just starts crawling with all kinds of women from places all over.
Location 3: Celebration Square. For those of you who are unfamiliar with the city of Mississauga, right outside the main shopping mall there's a place which is the size of 4 city blocks right in the heart of downtown. In this little plaza there's the Central Library and a big area which is regularly used for concerts and such events. Now since it's summertime there's alot of activity going on all the time and a perfect place to meet women who are just looking to have a good time and/or come to the library to study and whatnot. Since this is a city filled with alot of young people, the library is going to be a perfect place to meet college girls who come in and out.
Location 4: The Gym. What better place to meet young fit ladies than the gym that i regularly go to eh? Now this is not a small time gym operation in the middle of nowhere. This is a gym which is 3 floors deep and crawling with people all the time. I usually go when i have free time, which is basically in the evening-ish and it gets packed. The reason i chose this place was simply for convenience, as it's not to far from my house and the other locations. I had my eyes on the lookout today looking for cute girls and was sorta disappointed i did not find as many cute girls as in the other places. If i can recall correctly to other past times i've been to the gym earlier, there's usually more girls in the morning than in the afternoon probably because they want to avoid "rush hour" and because it might be more convenient for them?
It's still not a bad place to find women, but i just wish there were more. Today it reminded me of the sausages parties that i used to go to back in high school. But i still have high hopes i will find more cute girls in this place.

...And there you have it. Day 1 is done and in the books and looking forward to seeing what this new week is going to bring and unto Day 2!

 

[ray_zorse]

Good locations brother. And nice social circle work.

I often see dudes tackle day 1 and pick some pretty impractical / useless locations, whereas you are right on the money with your choices. I want to make some minor comments (if I'm hijacking your journal I'll shut up hahaha).

1. Get used to burning it down in social circle. I burnt myself bad with a chick from my office, however I am really glad I did it (wasn't my feeling at the time) because I picked up some valuable pointers on how to be discreet and how to be more casual / avoid focusing too much on any one girl / avoid those awkward convo when you want to impress her and end up saying awkward shit under pressure. We avoided each other for 6mth but now seem to be friends I guess.

2. The gym is IMO a special case, I would avoid burning it down here but take it as an opportunity to practice "slow game", I would open situationally e.g. "I was on the tready before [grounding your opener], and I saw you on the bench press, do you do a lot of upper body work?"... I would not ask her out until I'd had at least 3 good convo with her on separate occasions, unless she acts super thirsty.

3. In the other places the opposite applies, once you get past the initial exercises such as smiling at girls, saying hi, etc, you'll want to get used to almost always inviting her out.

Good stuff brother. Take care.

Ray

 

[Misa19]

Day 2
Today's assignment definitely took me out of my comfort zone as i'm not used to walking with my head upright and my shoulders back. I don't know why but ever since i was a little kid i've always had problems with my posture. But i resolved that i would finally change that today.
I went to the bus terminal and made a conscious effort of keeping my back straight, pretending there was a meat hook pulling me up from my breastbone and keeping my feet apart and overall just having a powerful walk.
I decided to sit down and also observe other people's walk and how what they made me perceive of them.
I actually noticed that people who walk with their limbs close together and with a fast pace are the ones who seem to be unsure of themselves or in a hurry or simply not in control. Hardly the type of people who make others get out of their way.
There were also people who walking around who just kept starting everywhere, always moving their eyes about in different directions. This were also the type of people who always seem to be in a hurry and not in control.
This types of people are the most prevalent in all the places that i went to. I guess you could call them average since a large percent of the populations simply doesn't put much thought in the way they walk.
But then there's the minority of the people, the type of people who walk in slow pace but with their heads held high and their feet apart. This are the the types of people who make others get out of their way when they walk. The ones who, as soon you catch a glimpse of them already know are going somewhere with purpose and have control and confidence in their lives. But this types of people are few and far in between. The majority simply don't care about how they present their self's to the rest of the world. But i don't want to be part of the majority. I want to be part of the few who simply walk past you and you can smell their confidence oozing out of their body.
So today i simply spend all day walking around with a powerful walk that brought me confidence and i loved every minute of it.