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1.) Very briefly met a girl at a work event, but had to leave for work reasons. Her friend later gave me her # without me asking (I wasn't really in pickup mode at the time :|).
2.) Had some good text exchanges and got her to tag along last week to a bar my friend and I were going to (this is 2 weeks after the party due to me being on vacation).
3.) She came, but brought 2 friends. Nevertheless, the night went extremely well (IMO). Just the two of us left the bar for a lounge down the road. Plenty of making out and groping of each other, followed by me convincing her to get out of there to my place. As we were about to leave, she remembered she had her friends car keys (she drove her friends car).
4.) We went back and I got CB'ed hard by the friends - told her she was drunk & a slut, had work in the morning. Definitely killed the vibe. My friends were gone at this point so we talked a bit and she said to text her the next day and just we would go out.
5.) Guess I shouldn't have taken it at face value, give the energy of the night, but we texted the next day and I definitely came off as thirsty.
She was giving me some resistance, and I told her to 'just come over for some dinner', yikes. No reply for 6 days.
So I just read about attraction windows (and not kissing on first outing). I've been meeting up with other girls in my rotation, but I'm wondering what the correct play is when you've already given it up (kiss, almost taking her home) and followed it up with a desperate text. Is it about time to text her and set up a normal dinner date? Wait for her to contact me? Having a hard time balancing neediness / desperation with moving this along since she already knows what I'm about...
1.) Very briefly met a girl at a work event, but had to leave for work reasons. Her friend later gave me her # without me asking (I wasn't really in pickup mode at the time :|).
2.) Had some good text exchanges and got her to tag along last week to a bar my friend and I were going to (this is 2 weeks after the party due to me being on vacation).
3.) She came, but brought 2 friends. Nevertheless, the night went extremely well (IMO). Just the two of us left the bar for a lounge down the road. Plenty of making out and groping of each other, followed by me convincing her to get out of there to my place. As we were about to leave, she remembered she had her friends car keys (she drove her friends car).
4.) We went back and I got CB'ed hard by the friends - told her she was drunk & a slut, had work in the morning. Definitely killed the vibe. My friends were gone at this point so we talked a bit and she said to text her the next day and just we would go out.
5.) Guess I shouldn't have taken it at face value, give the energy of the night, but we texted the next day and I definitely came off as thirsty.
She was giving me some resistance, and I told her to 'just come over for some dinner', yikes. No reply for 6 days.
So I just read about attraction windows (and not kissing on first outing). I've been meeting up with other girls in my rotation, but I'm wondering what the correct play is when you've already given it up (kiss, almost taking her home) and followed it up with a desperate text. Is it about time to text her and set up a normal dinner date? Wait for her to contact me? Having a hard time balancing neediness / desperation with moving this along since she already knows what I'm about...
