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First i want to quickly introduce myself: Im a 21 yo guy who is starting in this seduction art and was pretty clumsy at women before started reading on this page, i've had many girlfriends and definitely a lot of sex, but i just ended up a long and serious relationship (4 years) and just don't feel like i used to feel, besides i wasn't any good at: Aproach, Picking up, Deep diving and many other stuff, but i always managed to get a girl since i've always developed myself to be a natural "Sexy Man".
So the thing is last night i did my first hook up with a really stunting girl, "the Club Queen" you always look foward to, this is what happened:
1- We went out on a date couple of weeks ago, i didn't escalated physicaly, date ended well but no kiss (just a 5 hour sex-life-laughs talk), wich you may think "you gotta move fast".
2- Couldn't talk to her because of work and studies (andi wasn't very interested on her since date 1 ended with no kiss or anything).
3- She suddendsly calls me and tells me she wants to hang out tonight, i take her to a restaurant (not fancy) and then to a after-party.
4- Take her home, do all by the book (but i had to put on a movie because im a student and i dont own a TV where i stay at)
5- She lays on my bed, says she doesn't understands me because i lost 2-3 weeks and doesn't understands what i want from her, then i felt the awkardness on her body langague.
6- i gived her hope to be her boyfriend (had to, she was feeling awkard) but not that much hope, i told her my schedule is pretty damn fit, then we kiss, we have sex, end of the night.
I really think she can be a very good girlfriend, she's not a drama queen, very patient, attent, kind, sexy, but i just don't want to be on a relationship right now, so my big awesome and stupid question is, WHAT DO I DO NEXT? HOW DO I NEXT HER? and do i have enough argument to do such a thing?
Thanks for reading, i really apreciate. And thanks for the site, have helped A LOT.
-Sal
So the thing is last night i did my first hook up with a really stunting girl, "the Club Queen" you always look foward to, this is what happened:
1- We went out on a date couple of weeks ago, i didn't escalated physicaly, date ended well but no kiss (just a 5 hour sex-life-laughs talk), wich you may think "you gotta move fast".
2- Couldn't talk to her because of work and studies (andi wasn't very interested on her since date 1 ended with no kiss or anything).
3- She suddendsly calls me and tells me she wants to hang out tonight, i take her to a restaurant (not fancy) and then to a after-party.
4- Take her home, do all by the book (but i had to put on a movie because im a student and i dont own a TV where i stay at)
5- She lays on my bed, says she doesn't understands me because i lost 2-3 weeks and doesn't understands what i want from her, then i felt the awkardness on her body langague.
6- i gived her hope to be her boyfriend (had to, she was feeling awkard) but not that much hope, i told her my schedule is pretty damn fit, then we kiss, we have sex, end of the night.
I really think she can be a very good girlfriend, she's not a drama queen, very patient, attent, kind, sexy, but i just don't want to be on a relationship right now, so my big awesome and stupid question is, WHAT DO I DO NEXT? HOW DO I NEXT HER? and do i have enough argument to do such a thing?
Thanks for reading, i really apreciate. And thanks for the site, have helped A LOT.
-Sal
