I had a first date with this lady (woman A) on a Thursday and it was cool, we had fun, there was a little touching, and I was unsure if I wanted to go after it, so I just gave her a quick kiss and split after a glass of wine.
I had another date with another lady (Woman B) the following Saturday and I wasn't sure how long it might go, but around mid-afternoon I was free so I text Woman A and say, hey what are you doing, if your free lets' do something, she texts back, says ok, and I text "can I cook for you?", she says sure, and she's at my Bachelor pad that night at 6:30 for dinner.
We're having a few drinks while we're cooking and listening to some music on Pandora. She's telling me she wants to be friends with me, then proceeds to tell me about all the guys in her life, and how she was attracted to this guy at the bar while she was waiting for another date to show up, but the guy was clueless and did not get any signals. She's telling me about how she followed him to the area where the bathrooms were (she moved for him) and the eye contact etc., and he did nothing.
I kept telling her that some men don't understand how to connect with a woman, and I said a few things like "I shouldn't be telling you this but when a woman does X it means Y" etc., basic Chase stuff. She picked up that I'm an expeienced seducer. I told her about how I learned a lot from an older guy in my apartment complex when I was in college and we used to go pull women from a local bar / dance club next to our apartment.
After dinner she tells me about some music she really likes, and I put it on Pandora, and she comes over we dance a little, then she pretty much jumps me telling me how much she wanted to kiss me. So we're making out, and it starts to get pretty hot, and I pick her up as she wraps her legs around my waiste, and I start to carry her to the bedroom. She sort of puts the brakes on that, cause it was only 7:30 and I had promised we would go dancing. I follow her to her apartment where she drops off her car and rides with me.
We go dancing for a while at a local place, and the dancing was very hot and sexy, then I take her back to my place, where we get intimate many times during the coarse of the night. We even take a shower together and get intimate again after that. She's saything things like "I have not had sex in a while" before we have sex, then in the morning before we had sex for the last time, she's asking me stuff like when was the last time I had sex and how many women am I seeing, etc.. I avoid answering these questions by just saying I don't kiss and tell.
I take Woman A home in the morning. She's saying she can hardly walk.
Later that day I find Woman A's earrings she left at my place, so I text her and tell her I have them. She says hold on to them for me.
I do not contact Woman A for a few days. Then I text her and ask her if she wants to get together and go running in the afternoon on a Wednesday. She says she has a Dr. Appt, but will get back to me and let me know. Later she sends a photo of some liquor to me. It was one of the brands we had been drinking last Saturday. I do not respond to Woman A becuase I don't want texting banter, I want compliance around going running, and I don't ask twice. She does not get back to me about running. I have a backup date (Woman C) that I go to that night. I have not texted Woman A since I asked about running.
I'm just a little surprised that she's not chasing me. I really enjoyed her, and I know I rocked her world many many times, and definitely want to hit that again, but I'm kind of feeling stuck. I left my Friday night open hoping she would step in (I know, I know), but have not heard from Woman A. So, what's going on here? Is she feeling social stigma because she knows I'm a seducer or feels she can't handle someone like me? Is she just busy? Is she not interested? Is she playing me?
Help? Anyone?
I had another date with another lady (Woman B) the following Saturday and I wasn't sure how long it might go, but around mid-afternoon I was free so I text Woman A and say, hey what are you doing, if your free lets' do something, she texts back, says ok, and I text "can I cook for you?", she says sure, and she's at my Bachelor pad that night at 6:30 for dinner.
We're having a few drinks while we're cooking and listening to some music on Pandora. She's telling me she wants to be friends with me, then proceeds to tell me about all the guys in her life, and how she was attracted to this guy at the bar while she was waiting for another date to show up, but the guy was clueless and did not get any signals. She's telling me about how she followed him to the area where the bathrooms were (she moved for him) and the eye contact etc., and he did nothing.
I kept telling her that some men don't understand how to connect with a woman, and I said a few things like "I shouldn't be telling you this but when a woman does X it means Y" etc., basic Chase stuff. She picked up that I'm an expeienced seducer. I told her about how I learned a lot from an older guy in my apartment complex when I was in college and we used to go pull women from a local bar / dance club next to our apartment.
After dinner she tells me about some music she really likes, and I put it on Pandora, and she comes over we dance a little, then she pretty much jumps me telling me how much she wanted to kiss me. So we're making out, and it starts to get pretty hot, and I pick her up as she wraps her legs around my waiste, and I start to carry her to the bedroom. She sort of puts the brakes on that, cause it was only 7:30 and I had promised we would go dancing. I follow her to her apartment where she drops off her car and rides with me.
We go dancing for a while at a local place, and the dancing was very hot and sexy, then I take her back to my place, where we get intimate many times during the coarse of the night. We even take a shower together and get intimate again after that. She's saything things like "I have not had sex in a while" before we have sex, then in the morning before we had sex for the last time, she's asking me stuff like when was the last time I had sex and how many women am I seeing, etc.. I avoid answering these questions by just saying I don't kiss and tell.
I take Woman A home in the morning. She's saying she can hardly walk.
Later that day I find Woman A's earrings she left at my place, so I text her and tell her I have them. She says hold on to them for me.
I do not contact Woman A for a few days. Then I text her and ask her if she wants to get together and go running in the afternoon on a Wednesday. She says she has a Dr. Appt, but will get back to me and let me know. Later she sends a photo of some liquor to me. It was one of the brands we had been drinking last Saturday. I do not respond to Woman A becuase I don't want texting banter, I want compliance around going running, and I don't ask twice. She does not get back to me about running. I have a backup date (Woman C) that I go to that night. I have not texted Woman A since I asked about running.
I'm just a little surprised that she's not chasing me. I really enjoyed her, and I know I rocked her world many many times, and definitely want to hit that again, but I'm kind of feeling stuck. I left my Friday night open hoping she would step in (I know, I know), but have not heard from Woman A. So, what's going on here? Is she feeling social stigma because she knows I'm a seducer or feels she can't handle someone like me? Is she just busy? Is she not interested? Is she playing me?
Help? Anyone?
